Does this happen with AS men?

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Jamesy
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07 Feb 2011, 11:50 am

Do most men with AS end up having asian wifes from countries like Thialand, Japan and China????????????



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07 Feb 2011, 12:02 pm

Maybe not "most", but probably a large number.

I suspect that "most" end up remaining single.



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07 Feb 2011, 12:08 pm

Ok fair enough



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07 Feb 2011, 12:25 pm

No


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07 Feb 2011, 12:35 pm

I reckon it's a possibility that a lot of AS men would, if there is a slight language gap, thus they don't have to talk much...



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07 Feb 2011, 12:55 pm

I think most AS men have a diagnosis of AS and have penises (one of each for each one). Not that there's a connection between the two but that would be the consistent similarities with all AS men.

Men with an Asian fetish marry Asian women. So that may be AF men? (Asian Fetish = AF)? Also, a man who falls in love with a woman who is also in love with him (and happens to have asian ethnicity) may also marry an asian woman. That seems like a logical possibility as well. I suppose if that man also had a diagnosis of AS, we could add that in, too. It'd be even more spectacular if she had an AS diagnosis, as well. AS AF Men who love AS Asian Women... next Maury.

PS: Are we counting Asian AS men in this or is it less fetishy if Asian men, regardless of whether they are NT or AS, are attracted to Asian women?



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07 Feb 2011, 1:08 pm

I dated a Korean woman who had AS, the relationship lasted 3 years. We are still very good friends.

I have no preference as for ethnicity.


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07 Feb 2011, 1:13 pm

Just AS men not NT



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08 Feb 2011, 11:16 am

The Asian Fetish certainly isn't limited in scope to guys with AS. Lots of American soldiers in Korea end up marrying Koreans. Not the majority, but a significant minority. However, I am certain that the overwhelming majority of soldiers in Korea do at some point at least end up enjoying coitus with a Korean.

When the Americans had the big base in Subic Bay, a lot of the sailors ended up marrying Filipinas.

I know a Vietnam War veteran who earned a Good Conduct Medal, for being the only guy in his outfit who didn't catch a venereal disease.

You might enjoy the movie My Darling is a Foreigner, which is about a romance between a Japanese manga artist and an American who is so obsessed with Japanese culture and language that he corrects the grammar of Japanese people speaking Japanese.



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08 Feb 2011, 11:38 am

No need to beat around the bush my man. are you talking about mail order brides? :wink:


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08 Feb 2011, 4:24 pm

My guess would be that for those select few guys with ASD who don't end up alone, there is almost always a significant disparity between age, ethnicity, or nationality.

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08 Feb 2011, 4:35 pm

Daryl_Blonder wrote:
My guess would be that for those select few guys with ASD who don't end up alone, there is almost always a significant disparity between age, ethnicity, or nationality.


Why do you suppose that is? I wanted to deny this idea for half a minute until I remembered that my wife is 7 years younger than I am :)


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08 Feb 2011, 4:52 pm

Is 7 years a significant disparity? Says who? I mean, sure it might matter if you're 20 and she's 13, but what does it matter in the world of adults? My husband is 11 years my senior. I've met men the same age as him who act like senior citizens and are negative nellies about every living thing... and then I've met men like him, who are active and fun. It's just finding connections.



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08 Feb 2011, 4:58 pm

When we got together she was 21 and I was 28. It felt like a lot at the time, especially as she was coming out of college and I was coming out of a divorce.


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08 Feb 2011, 5:22 pm

I can understand that you were both in different places in your lives. But, I mean, who's going to accuse the 87 year old of marrying someone so much younger than him if his wife is 81? At some point, the age thing just becomes silly. When someone says "significant disparity" in context of age, I think a generational gap. That 87 year old marrying the 21 year old. You know?



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08 Feb 2011, 5:43 pm

Like Hugh Hefner, for example.