ToadOfSteel wrote:
After having an okcupid profile for over a month, I finally worked up the courage to send a message. Here's to hoping that I can turn my life around...
one step at a time, TOS, - one step at a time,
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this is not so much about getting a girlfriend straight away, but about you feeling you got something to offer and you thinking that somebody else might be interested in it, this is brilliant..
and who knows, you might end up like i did,
bought my first computer in 12/2000, met my husband on-line on a chat channel in 01/2001, upped and left my job and home country to get married in 04/2001 without having ever met him in person - my friends said i'm crazy, and i have to admit i was, but hey : who dares, wins,
, and i got freakin' lucky.
we had our ups and some horrible downs, but we are hanging in there,
, and most of all, we have a lovely little boy, who just turned 9 a few days ago.
best of luck to you!
oh and - don't do what i did, it is dangerous, irresponsible and downright mad.
but then you do not strike me as somebody, who acts before he thinks, so you will be just fine!! !