I'm going to do it, but not today. Very urgent!

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Yes, I have been MIA. That coworker thing was a lie. She lied about her age, and I don't want to even see her family, as I have bad blood with her sister. Anyway....

I had romantic intrests in a girl who was, well, really poor. Now to give you an idea of how poor, their house was assessed at less than $10,000. And, well it's just as bad as third world poverty -- they are that poor in the USA, but then again that isn't too rare of a sight. I "left" her because she didn't want to get out of poverty. Five bucks says if I enter her life again, she'll change her mind.

So I am pondering about getting back with her, but I'd have to bail her out of poverty. She is hopefully going to college, so I will see her there. I need advice. I am willing to spend the $$$ but there has got to be another way.

When people don't want to improve a problem, I find it's often because that requires hurting their self esteem by admitting they have a problem. IMHO you should tread carefully on that issue.