What would you appreciate most?

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What do you appreciate most about someone?
What do you most appreciate with someone in how they are to you?
What could someone do or become for you that you would appreciate most?
and/or any other things in such nature..

Good sense of humour & caring are the best 2 traits for me.
& i appreciate it when they put up with me at my worst.

That they inspire something in me



Kind, open, forgiving, interested



Themselves



Pianos

2 when someone can be silent with me and there is a complete understanding
someone that has compassion and patience and always returns to me and visits with me every off- time I invite them, no matter how silly/crazy I acted before around them in group settings

1 someone with compassion and patience that knows what it's like to go through a tough life, but are not stuck on/create drama.

3 if someone I actually cared for and did most/made the most effort for would realize that & never allow me to leave em

Kindness, loyalty, understanding and boobs

If someone can't tolerate you at your worst, they don't deserve you at your best, and I stand by that.

same here.
although it takes something almost superhuman to put up with me at my worst, worst.

This is too vague for me. I value different things in every different person I know. I tend to look for some underlying good in people that are harder on the exterior. Even if it's a cliche I suppose I value honesty more than anything else. I'm not talking about literal brutal honesty or lack of white lies. I'm talking about not being stabbed in the back honesty. Ever

I will talk about Dee, my g/f as of now(soon to be wife scary eh? haha.) because she is the most important thing in my life.

I appreciate that she listens to me, tries to be understanding of me, although i think sometimes this is hard for her to do. she tried to be interested in things that i talk about(She probably is bored sh*tless though), she is caring towards me and tries to love me alot.



She is a real forgiving person, I think from my past i think sometimes i think i am taking an advantage of her because she is to nice to me. she is really loving toward me and Sometimes i dont understand why so i ask her.. It bothers me sometimes when she says when i ask her why she loves me she only says because i do. She cares deeply for me and tries in every way to make me happy. There is more to this but for now this is what i will add.



I dont understand this question.

But I think Dee is the most interesting person I have met in my life. She is really into me no matter how screwed up i am. She does have issues with how i am sometimes. Typically i am all over her real affectionate(only person i have been like this with) with her and today i was feeling off and isnt really touching her. I think it bothered her but i don't know what i can do if i don't feel like being affectionate. I told her sometimes i get off and to expect it but i guess seeing and saying about is 2 different things. I suppose she will learn about this in due time and take it as it goes. But she needs to understand i think that I am more odd than most normal guys she has been with. But in the end as long as i make her really happy I am doing my job. I do like that she thinks i am the best thing since sliced bread. I don't think i would change anything about her. some things i would like to see about her isn't a real big deal but I think she will become the best person in my life real soon. I think she is that great..

Anyway I hope this answers your questions.. If not sorry.. I think i am going to have her read this when i am done and she wakes up.

Ahh, but that depends on your worst, doesn't it?
If your worst is shrewish, violent, selfish and mean then I wouldn't hang around to see what your best is.

What if my worst was to beat the tar out of you but bring you flowers and chocolates the next day?

loving [to me] AND bootylicious.
everything else is merely icing on the cake.
hey, i can dream [at least], can't i?

I appreciate a very good sense of humor. And faithfulness in every which way one can be faithful.

That's just arrogance and near enough the 'my way or the highway' attitude dressed up as something else.



Pretty much this. If someone treats you like dirt, it doesn't mean you don't deserve them if they are all nice and sweet afterwards.

Granted everyone is entitled to an off day and be moody every now and again for various reasons but there is no justification for treating someone badly.

I appreciate knowing that someone actually cares about me. Someone who wants to know what's wrong when I'm in a bad mood or something & actually takes time to listen & offer advice/help if they can. Trying to be my friend & lots of little things. I also like having a connection with someone & being able to talk for hours about pointless stuff, or being able to joke around & have a sense of humor & stuff. Showing me that they care is what's really important thou because I start liking most anyone who's nice to me after a while

Actually, it's never caused me any problems with men. If they're to piss weak to cope with depression or crying they can %$#@ off imo.

People who say "I like you when you behave normally, but I don't want to cope with you when you're down - I like happy happy calm girls - if you're down I don't want anything to do with you" don't deserve you, period.

Maybe get some success with women before critisising the way others think.

Too many men expect women to have perfect moods, to behave sweetly, to never cry, to never get depressed, and they cannot cope with a woman when she is depressed or upset. These people are Not real men. Same applies for a woman who expects her man to be perfect.

Well obviously if it involves crossing the line, tearing down someone's self esteem, beating someone up, throwing them through a plate glass window, it doesn't apply.

I actually meant depression and crying and being overwhelmed (my version of a meltdown)