My love life like my life is at point zero

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Anyone feel like me and feel jalous when see happy couples or see Facebook "friends" change they status from single to engaged? Yeah i am. When couple is separed i get happy and excited. I hate when some of my Facebook "friends" list received love words. I was friend with a girl nearly same age than me. Nothing romantical, just friend zoned and when she grt engaged to this douche i was an option. Yeah i think with reason that girl like douche and get hurt for nothing. Why? Becauser they get want girls want. Douches lies for get what they want...sex. Who will go out with a fascist and Mussolini admirer like me, nobody? You're right! So i get social reject in all way again, again, again, again, again, again and again so i give up and take a break i need to think. I need to do a psychological work. Plus i have agited dream so my sleep is dosen't good. Hope someday a mysterious glasses girl will come and kiss me

If you can afford it and it's legal where you live, try a prostitute. Otherwise, just stick to porn.

Love is overrated anyway.

Nothing wrong with taking a break.

And the world may be full of douches (that's a fact). But you don't have to be one to succeed. If the douche was charming and treated her well, he won fair and square. Learn those skills. That's not dishonesty.

That not true, prostitution is illegal in Canada. Plus they are full of STD's. I'm already on hentai and glasses girl porn(sometime gay porn)but that's not enough



They have to accept me as i am. I already received the tip that i do not change for anyone. Douches are manipulatives as they have they want. After they dump the girl

Maybe you just weren't looking in the right place?

That right is probably the deal breaker. The number of women who would go out with a fascist Mussolini admirer is vanishingly small. But there must be a special interest group for that someweher on the internet with perhaps some women in it.

I can definitely relate to what you're saying but I'd say the best thing to do is try to find your self-worth and value in something more meaningful other than social status, don't rely your happiness on others and find a sense of confidence in being independent and free, it works for me. I think rejection is common for people in general, the reason the so-called douches get with women is because they are persistent and persevere instead of allowing themselves to have a negative outlook.

Very nice



What about emotions manipulations? They use it very well



I have to search

if it's at point zero, the only way to go is up!

There is no minus one in the Emlion lexicon.

nope!

Well yes, some people do play games in relationships and tend to manipulate for the sole purpose of selfish gain or getting sex, it's not honorable and definitely isn't a good foundation for a long-lasting loving relationship. I don't think pornography or just trying to get laid is very healthy for you to be honest, it's selfish and degrading, sex will feel much more special and selfless if you wait for the right girl. Even if you don't meet the right girl straight away, just focus on being happy and finding value in your life, at least you'll still have your dignity. Relationships aren't some magic solution to the end of all your problems either, they require maturity, devotion, commitment and responsibility. As aspies, we're generally vunerable and clueless to manipulation and games so I'd suggest finding someone who respects traits such as mutual respect, loyalty and honesty, those traits are very admirable and give you the power to live an authentic and courageous life.

I think you don't have a love life because you're so obsessed with having one, and you're too focused on the jealousy that you feel when you see other people happy with eachother. It really does come along easier when you least expect it and when you're happy with yourself as a single person.