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E-FrameZenderblast
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27 Feb 2011, 11:14 pm

I know I post a lot about this, but there are a couple of matters I would like advice on regarding my crush...

Today, before school, my chance came. We were walking towards each other, and so I tried to prepare myself to talk to her. But she saw me, faltered, turned around and went in the opposite direction and turned round a corner 8O :( . I felt somewhat surprised and maybe a little bit upset. Do you think she is just shy (yet interested), or there is something else? I have asked my friends whether I could be regarded as creepy, and they do not think so...

Also, I found out that there is a new school email system where every student has a seperate email, and it is possible to email each other. Would it be considered appropriate by normal standards to ask her out through email?



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28 Feb 2011, 2:22 am

I don't know about her being shy or not, but as for your second question, I have been led to believe that it is always better to ask a girl out in person. Good luck.



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28 Feb 2011, 9:51 pm

E-FrameZenderblast wrote:
Today, before school, my chance came. We were walking towards each other, and so I tried to prepare myself to talk to her. But she saw me, faltered, turned around and went in the opposite direction and turned round a corner 8O :( . I felt somewhat surprised and maybe a little bit upset. Do you think she is just shy (yet interested), or there is something else? I have asked my friends whether I could be regarded as creepy, and they do not think so...


I don't think she is into you. Leave her alone.



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28 Feb 2011, 11:18 pm

Wombat wrote:
E-FrameZenderblast wrote:
Today, before school, my chance came. We were walking towards each other, and so I tried to prepare myself to talk to her. But she saw me, faltered, turned around and went in the opposite direction and turned round a corner 8O :( . I felt somewhat surprised and maybe a little bit upset. Do you think she is just shy (yet interested), or there is something else? I have asked my friends whether I could be regarded as creepy, and they do not think so...


I don't think she is into you. Leave her alone.

Could you say why?



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01 Mar 2011, 12:59 pm

If she's turning around and getting out of sight when she notices you're around, I'd say that's most likely an indicator she's noticed you staring at her and thinks it's creepy because she isn't even interested in you in the slightest way. Sorry for you, but I calls em like I sees em.


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01 Mar 2011, 1:00 pm

I don't think she's interested.
If she's blatently going to walk in the other direction to you that's basically screaming 'keep away from me.'



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01 Mar 2011, 1:06 pm

You don't want someone like her. You would do better with someone who wants to be in the same air space as you. That's a good start, anyway. Please leave this girl alone. Nothing will come of it. Move on.



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01 Mar 2011, 1:13 pm

Probably best not to email here right now. If it's a small campus, you're bound to run into her again. Gage her reaction the next time you see her. If she keeps turning around, it's probably more likely she has problems more than do you.

If she is turning away because of you, I am sorry. It's not a very mature way of handling it.



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01 Mar 2011, 11:52 pm

Right, a bit depressing but I suppose it makes sense. Fair enough...







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