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06 Feb 2011, 2:11 pm

..or will it just be the same?









If I've had no luck with NT girls should I try AS girls or will it just be the same?



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06 Feb 2011, 2:13 pm

chill the caps lock. :lol:

no AS girl is the same, no NT girl is the same.



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06 Feb 2011, 2:14 pm

First of all, chill out on the caps, kanye...

Second, if you have no luck with one particular group of women, you should look at yourself first. You are the only link in all those rejections...



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06 Feb 2011, 2:17 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
First of all, chill out on the caps, kanye...

Second, if you have no luck with one particular group of women, you should look at yourself first. You are the only link in all those rejections...


what am i doing wrong?

being myself?



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06 Feb 2011, 2:19 pm

If shouting counts as being yourself, then yes, you are doing something wrong.



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06 Feb 2011, 2:21 pm

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If shouting counts as being yourself, then yes, you are doing something wrong.


I'm not shouting i'm just drawing attention to the question it works but i'm attracting the wrong kind of attention everyone is talking about the caps lock and not the question lol



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06 Feb 2011, 2:24 pm

probably more your approach to girls/dating is giving you trouble, more than your personality.



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06 Feb 2011, 2:29 pm

TB_TB_TB_TB_TB_TB wrote:
Mindslave wrote:
If shouting counts as being yourself, then yes, you are doing something wrong.


I'm not shouting i'm just drawing attention to the question it works but i'm attracting the wrong kind of attention everyone is talking about the caps lock and not the question lol


Exactly.


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06 Feb 2011, 2:33 pm

emlion wrote:
probably more your approach to girls/dating is giving you trouble, more than your personality.


how am i approaching it wrong?
and
how do i approach it in the right way?



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06 Feb 2011, 2:34 pm

can't say on the zero details you provided.
more details needed.



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06 Feb 2011, 2:40 pm

TB_TB_TB_TB_TB_TB wrote:
what am i doing wrong?

being myself?


If being yourself means reeking of desperation, then yes. Needy desperation drives people away faster than horrible body odor. It actually emits a sort of magnetic repulsion that pushes away from you the very thing you desire.

First, stop obsessing over the subject. It will never happen for you as long as you are thinking about it CONSTANTLY. Get a life. Seriously, find something to occupy you and quit worrying about when romance will find you. You can't force that to happen, but you'll be much more attractive to others if they see you committed to a purpose and displaying experience and confidence in something.


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06 Feb 2011, 2:41 pm

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06 Feb 2011, 2:49 pm

Avengilante wrote:
TB_TB_TB_TB_TB_TB wrote:
what am i doing wrong?

being myself?


If being yourself means reeking of desperation, then yes. Needy desperation drives people away faster than horrible body odor. It actually emits a sort of magnetic repulsion that pushes away from you the very thing you desire.

First, stop obsessing over the subject. It will never happen for you as long as you are thinking about it CONSTANTLY. Get a life. Seriously, find something to occupy you and quit worrying about when romance will find you. You can't force that to happen, but you'll be much more attractive to others if they see you committed to a purpose and displaying experience and confidence in something.


thank you



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06 Feb 2011, 2:52 pm

TB_TB_TB_TB_TB_TB wrote:
I'm not shouting i'm just drawing attention to the question it works but i'm attracting the wrong kind of attention everyone is talking about the caps lock and not the question lol


Using only cap locks is disturbing for many people here - don't worry about it, your questions will get answers even without using them.

In this particular case, you don't give any background - why and how didn't things go well for you until now, did you identified the reasons or tried to change your approach etc, so it's very hard for anybody to answer. Giving more detail would be the best way to get attention to your situation and support or input from others.


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06 Feb 2011, 5:30 pm

At least you still have a chance.

I gave up years ago after my wife passed.

It is not worth the pain to me,
there isn't anyone out there for
me and I know this for a fact.

I can just have to learn to live with it,
that is all there is to it.

I can play and run and jump in puddles,
I can pick my boogers, burp, hock loogies,
throw mudballs, draw butts, bubble in my milk
and giggle at it, scribble on the wall, flush the
toilet 20 times and giggle at that, mess around
with a pbx server, mix radish juice and carrot juice
and drink it, bake a potato pie, o now i'm laffing my
butt off thinking about doing all these weir dthings,
who needs a reship when you can make yourself laff
your buns off all day?

Ok I'm gonna go watch Sesame Street now.


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06 Feb 2011, 7:03 pm

I don't see what difference it would make.


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