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02 Dec 2016, 12:11 am

Do not rush relationships or enable potential womanizers.
don't idolize them or be jealous,
and do not cater to their perspectives or give them alms.

Do not reinforce their lifestyles or congratulate their perspectives passively or subliminally.

have self esteem. Don't enable womanizers.

the enablement of womanizers is why the world sucks: all violence, neglect, disrespect, abuse, rape, corruption and crime is a derivative of adultery.



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02 Dec 2016, 1:04 am

Who would you describe as a womanizer?



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02 Dec 2016, 3:09 am

Goardon wrote:
the enablement of womanizers is why the world sucks: all violence, neglect, disrespect, abuse, rape, corruption and crime is a derivative of adultery.


Might be a bit of a stretch there.



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02 Dec 2016, 3:11 am

One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.



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02 Dec 2016, 6:07 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.
Ehh, I dunno so much -- I mean yes the most prolific womanizers will be the attractive men, but I've actually known of at least two guys I can think of years ago, who actually didn't have much going for them in the looks department, but who managed to win women over with stuff like being super charming, and even making "friends" with them and being that guy they think they can trust "as a friend." Almost like a "long con" -- a long-term confidence trick played out over time with various women.

I actually knew a guy who went through girl after girl like cheap Kleenex doing things this way, and he looked more like Chris Farley than Patrick Swayze, type of thing. He was constantly setting up new girls in town and dumping 'em.



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02 Dec 2016, 9:03 am

BirdInFlight wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.
Ehh, I dunno so much -- I mean yes the most prolific womanizers will be the attractive men, but I've actually known of at least two guys I can think of years ago, who actually didn't have much going for them in the looks department, but who managed to win women over with stuff like being super charming, and even making "friends" with them and being that guy they think they can trust "as a friend." Almost like a "long con" -- a long-term confidence trick played out over time with various women.

I actually knew a guy who went through girl after girl like cheap Kleenex doing things this way, and he looked more like Chris Farley than Patrick Swayze, type of thing. He was constantly setting up new girls in town and dumping 'em.


Enough of this speech already, duh.... will you sleep with a guy who he doesn't make you horny? Whether with his looks or otherwise? Who are you kidding?

I said 'attractive' , I didn't say it necessary means good-looking.



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02 Dec 2016, 7:50 pm


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02 Dec 2016, 8:09 pm

BirdInFlight wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.
Ehh, I dunno so much -- I mean yes the most prolific womanizers will be the attractive men, but I've actually known of at least two guys I can think of years ago, who actually didn't have much going for them in the looks department, but who managed to win women over with stuff like being super charming, and even making "friends" with them and being that guy they think they can trust "as a friend." Almost like a "long con" -- a long-term confidence trick played out over time with various women.

I actually knew a guy who went through girl after girl like cheap Kleenex doing things this way, and he looked more like Chris Farley than a Patrick Swayze type of thing. He was constantly setting up new girls in town and dumping 'em.


Oh yes.
This is spot on and very well said.
These guys are lots of fun and break a lot of hearts because they know just who to prey on.



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02 Dec 2016, 8:31 pm

beady wrote:
BirdInFlight wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.
Ehh, I dunno so much -- I mean yes the most prolific womanizers will be the attractive men, but I've actually known of at least two guys I can think of years ago, who actually didn't have much going for them in the looks department, but who managed to win women over with stuff like being super charming, and even making "friends" with them and being that guy they think they can trust "as a friend." Almost like a "long con" -- a long-term confidence trick played out over time with various women.

I actually knew a guy who went through girl after girl like cheap Kleenex doing things this way, and he looked more like Chris Farley than a Patrick Swayze type of thing. He was constantly setting up new girls in town and dumping 'em.


Oh yes.
This is spot on and very well said.
These guys are lots of fun and break a lot of hearts because they know just who to prey on.


yea just look at those people that go on jeremy kyle (english version). They literally are missing teeth and are still womanisers



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03 Dec 2016, 2:24 am

#victimblaming #mansplaining



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03 Dec 2016, 6:13 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.


BS. most NTs are womanizers. it's just one of the many unnecessary words that describe something completely normal.
at the very least you don't HAVE to be attractive let alone very attractive.
being average or a bit below is enough, with confidence and social connections to carry you.



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03 Dec 2016, 5:07 pm

Why are you so rude in your response to my post? Screw you with your "who are you kidding." As you can see from other responses, other people have backed up what I posted.

Your harshness to me out of the clear blue sky was unwarranted and undeserved. With that attitude I can see why YOU have nobody.

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
BirdInFlight wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.
Ehh, I dunno so much -- I mean yes the most prolific womanizers will be the attractive men, but I've actually known of at least two guys I can think of years ago, who actually didn't have much going for them in the looks department, but who managed to win women over with stuff like being super charming, and even making "friends" with them and being that guy they think they can trust "as a friend." Almost like a "long con" -- a long-term confidence trick played out over time with various women.

I actually knew a guy who went through girl after girl like cheap Kleenex doing things this way, and he looked more like Chris Farley than Patrick Swayze, type of thing. He was constantly setting up new girls in town and dumping 'em.


Enough of this speech already, duh.... will you sleep with a guy who he doesn't make you horny? Whether with his looks or otherwise? Who are you kidding?

I said 'attractive' , I didn't say it necessary means good-looking.



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04 Dec 2016, 3:56 am

Reported for personal attack.

Even if my post sounded rude (it's just your perception) to you but you made a clear and explicit personal attack in return- so you are the one at fault now.

BirdInFlight wrote:
Why are you so rude in your response to my post? Screw you with your "who are you kidding." As you can see from other responses, other people have backed up what I posted.

Your harshness to me out of the clear blue sky was unwarranted and undeserved. With that attitude I can see why YOU have nobody.

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
BirdInFlight wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
One has to be very attractive to be a womanizer - and everyone want the very attractive ones.
Ehh, I dunno so much -- I mean yes the most prolific womanizers will be the attractive men, but I've actually known of at least two guys I can think of years ago, who actually didn't have much going for them in the looks department, but who managed to win women over with stuff like being super charming, and even making "friends" with them and being that guy they think they can trust "as a friend." Almost like a "long con" -- a long-term confidence trick played out over time with various women.

I actually knew a guy who went through girl after girl like cheap Kleenex doing things this way, and he looked more like Chris Farley than Patrick Swayze, type of thing. He was constantly setting up new girls in town and dumping 'em.


Enough of this speech already, duh.... will you sleep with a guy who he doesn't make you horny? Whether with his looks or otherwise? Who are you kidding?

I said 'attractive' , I didn't say it necessary means good-looking.



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04 Dec 2016, 1:15 pm

Is op a troll? They made a thread that cause drama then never replied to it 0.o



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04 Dec 2016, 4:35 pm

sly279 wrote:
Is op a troll? They made a thread that cause drama then never replied to it 0.o
Also only has 15 posts.


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04 Dec 2016, 8:28 pm

Goardon wrote:
Do not rush relationships or enable potential womanizers.
don't idolize them or be jealous,
and do not cater to their perspectives or give them alms.

Do not reinforce their lifestyles or congratulate their perspectives passively or subliminally.

have self esteem. Don't enable womanizers.

the enablement of womanizers is why the world sucks: all violence, neglect, disrespect, abuse, rape, corruption and crime is a derivative of adultery.


I agree wholeheartedly. A lot of women, unfortunately enable womanizers. But the opposite happens as well. A lot of men enable manizers, lol.

Humanity sucks. It always has, and always will...