(guys) do you find it easier with older women?

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I've had a few casual sexual encounters before but have never been able to form a stable relationship with anyone. I've also noticed ALL of my partners had been older women and none had been the same age or younger (okay not purposely, it just happened that way). Is this a thingy about body language or something to that effect? I've probably encountered potential younger or same-age partners but managed to scare them away with incorrect body language and eye contact and not being able to connect with hers. It's also very baffling to deal with any time a girl plays 'hard-to-get' as I can never tell the difference between this and a girl not being interested. My previous encounters had no such 'hard to get' phase and we knew what each other wanted.

Has anyone else encountered similar experiences, or know the reasons why?

I communicate with older women better. It just seems easier to talk to them, since they're less likely to play games and give you crap. That and they enjoy the attention of younger guys, as they worry about their own aging.

Never had any encounter , but they do give attention more often. They tend to be less picky.

I think that because older women are more experienced and mature, they know what is they really want and aren't just chasing after what society says is flavor of the month Overall, they're just less superficial.

Not quite sure, haven't talked to very many older women in a romantic setting. My girlfriend for one and a half years is 13 years older than me, though. However, she is a bit immature for her age in a couple areas.
All my previous girlfriends were (slightly) younger than me, but I was below 20 years old when i was with them, and I've matured a lot in the last few years..so..I dunno.

know exactly what you are saying and honestly i dont know why yet either, but the last 4 women i've been with were 7, 6, 10, and 15 years older than me respectively.

while i think being with older women is nice for their maturity is much appreciated, i think people tend to be more compatible with others their own age. this sucks because i meet a girl my age and after meeting a couple times they no longer want to speak to me

Eh women are difficult in general if you aren't willing to kiss ass to get some. I've heard women in their late 30s are the ones to go for if you want to have it easy. My only experience with a 38 year old involves me thinking she is CRAZY and being somewhat freaked out by her erratic behavior (this was after dating a 25 year old physically abusive schizophrenic 4'11" hulk of a woman and a 18 year old 5'11" amazon who beat her mom).

Is it possible that they think of us as kinda like a son in a way I've been chatting with an older women online recently. She liked some of my post especially a reply to a topic about needy women(she didn't start the topic). I suggested that needy women should look for needy men instead of chasing guys who are independent because independent guys tend to be put off by neediness which makes the women feel more inadequate & I also made the comment that I like needy women. Anyways she's 35 which is 7 years older than me. She's divorced has 3 sons; two 12 & one 14 who live with their dad for the most part. I'm very immature in some ways & a couple times when I was talking about my interest & likes she made a comment that her son's like that. I'm NOT sure if she sees me as kinda a kid or not but I'm very uncomfortable with the idea of being with someone who's going to be like a mom to me. I'd rather the reverse which would be feeling like a dad to a girl instead; I might should make a post in Members or Haven section about something.

I've had a couple older women tell me how they wished they could set me up with their daughters or granddaughters; I think had a thing for losers & I have some traditional conservative values that are more common amongst the older generation. That woman I've been chatting with doesn't have em; least not on the extreme that I do

I think so, in the case of much older women, like around 49 or so. Also I think they want to feel young again, so they might see if they can get a younger guy so they can tell themselves they still 'have it.'