Do you think this Aspie girl likes me?

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ok so i am an NT, and i go to college with an aspie girl who is in a few of my classes. she is quite a bit younger than me, but i really like her. she is very shy, and she doesn't talk a lot. she is very smart and we have talked a bit out of class. she always goes to her dorm after classes, and is not available on the weekends. i have invited her out a few times but she has rejected my offers. the other day i had mentioned that my personality was similar to aspergers, and she said that may be that "why we clicked so much". the thing is that when i meet other NT girls i feel the click a whole lot more than i do with her, but i am a lot more attracted to her than i am to all the other NT girls. i really don't feel like she is "clicking" with me, at least it doesn't seem like it. but i am very used to NT girls, and i have never met a person with aspergers before. when she told me she had aspergers i went and looked it up (found this forum too), and i think i understand where she is coming from (or at least why i might not notice her "clicking"). so can you tell me if someone with aspergers could be attracted to someone without them realizing at all? i mean i invite her places, she rejects me, and than she says we "click" but i don't see the click at all??

i really like this girl, she is very smart and she is not typical at all. i have scoured the web looking for insight into the mind of an aspie girl and couldn't find any clear answers. so aspie girls, how do you show that you are interested in someone??

thank you for your time, i really appreciate it.

There's your answer.

It sounds like she really likes you as a friend though, which may be one of the reasons why she doesn't want to date and potentially wreck it.

Seconded, if a girls says no, to hell with her, there are millions of girls much much better out there, don't focus on one that doesn't even want to go out. To hell with her.


Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

If someone says no it doesn't make them some sort of monster.

bopp, reread what I said, I did not said that girls that don't want to go out are some kind of monsters, all I'm saying is
STOP WASTING TIME with a girl that won't go out with you.

saying 'to hell with her' if she won't go out with her isn't exactly nice.

Also there being "much better" when she won't go out with you reminds me of someone going "want to go out with me?" "no" "oh whatever, you're ugly anyway" sort of attitude.

If you mean don't waste your time on girls who aren't interested, say it, the fact I said that is because you added all this extra stuff implying that she was sub-standard because she won't date you.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt156168.html

bopp: Much better = girls that won't waste my time being undecided. That's what I'm trying to say, nothimg more.

"to hell with her" is just a man's way of telling his brother to forget about the girl. I see no need to attribute something monstrously negative to the phrase itself.

yo manny, thx bruddah!