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georgewbush
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25 Mar 2011, 7:34 pm

In terms of personality, physical attractiveness, their interests, etc.



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25 Mar 2011, 7:46 pm

Personality: Someone I can communicate with, has a sense of humor, intelligence, honest, open-minded, doesn't look down on people.

Physical attractiveness: I don't have a list like "blonde hair, blue eyes"...as long as we're attracted to one another, it's all good.

Interests: I'm usually drawn to someone with interests different than mine so we can learn new things from each other. But I'm not particularly attracted to someone with certain interests over someone else.


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25 Mar 2011, 8:17 pm

Kindness, honesty, passion, perseverence.



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25 Mar 2011, 9:09 pm

Gorgeous body, dotes on me with presents, always knows the right thing to say and do in every situation, is strong but not intimidating, is sensitive, will be my best friend without being in the friendzone, will drive an expensive car, will have a huge paycheck, will have a Masters Degree, will come from a good family and will have lots of connections socially that I will always approve of and they will always love me, will never play video games, and he will always have tremendous skill and agility at everything he does.

Because that's totally what the guys on here are going to think women want no matter how many of these posts we answer honestly! :roll:



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25 Mar 2011, 9:41 pm

wefunction wrote:
Because that's totally what the guys on here are going to think women want no matter how many of these posts we answer honestly! :roll:

Lol, I was just about type, "So not much then?" :lol:



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26 Mar 2011, 5:29 am

Tall
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Spiritual
lovely mouth and teeth
Good personality and kind.
Loves animals.



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26 Mar 2011, 6:19 am

good sense of humour
confidence
everything else is negotiable.



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26 Mar 2011, 7:50 am

Vegan, Feminist, Fine with an asexual relationship, can put up with my Aspie obnoxiousness and tendency to collect homeless guinea pigs, wants marriage and maybe a family

Extra points for Androids and Vulcans.


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26 Mar 2011, 10:42 am

Someone kind, caring, honest and trustworthy who loves me more than anything else in the world.



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26 Mar 2011, 10:48 am

wefunction wrote:
Gorgeous body, dotes on me with presents, always knows the right thing to say and do in every situation, is strong but not intimidating, is sensitive, will be my best friend without being in the friendzone, will drive an expensive car, will have a huge paycheck, will have a Masters Degree, will come from a good family and will have lots of connections socially that I will always approve of and they will always love me, will never play video games, and he will always have tremendous skill and agility at everything he does.


Right here baby - come 'n get it!! 8)


Actually I don't play video games, but 1/20 isn't bad... :wink:



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26 Mar 2011, 10:48 am

MotherKnowsBest wrote:
Someone kind, caring, honest and trustworthy who loves me more than anything else in the world.


I second that last part.

~romantic sigh~


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26 Mar 2011, 10:49 am

^ i'm second place to the boyfriends xBox. :lol:
no girl can beat the xBox. *grumble*



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26 Mar 2011, 10:55 am

emlion wrote:
^ i'm second place to the boyfriends xBox. :lol:
no girl can beat the xBox. *grumble*


Play with him!

One of my fave things to do with my bestest ex was kick his ass @ Mariokart. :D


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26 Mar 2011, 10:56 am

Bethie wrote:
emlion wrote:
^ i'm second place to the boyfriends xBox. :lol:
no girl can beat the xBox. *grumble*


Play with him!

One of my fave things to do with my bestest ex was kick his ass @ Mariokart. :D


iii'm banned from playing. :lol:
i get angry when i lose. :oops:

srsly though, i love playing it with him, it's super fun.

sometimes i let him keep playing whilst we have sex.
best girlfriend ever? :lmao:



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26 Mar 2011, 11:10 am

emlion wrote:

sometimes i let him keep playing whilst we have sex.
best girlfriend ever? :lmao:


Whoa!

Like...how's that work?

:)

and yeah, um...I dunno where you'd be nominated, but that makes you a shoo-in.


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26 Mar 2011, 11:11 am

Bethie wrote:
emlion wrote:

sometimes i let him keep playing whilst we have sex.
best girlfriend ever? :lmao:


Whoa!

Like...how's that work?

:)

and yeah, um...I dunno where you'd be nominated, but that makes you a shoo-in.


haha. it was a little rough seeing as he had no hands free.
and his team still won, that was pretty impressive stuff.