got back from a date...

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yeah, I guess its true females like confidence in men. Or at least most of them do. I Came home from school for the weekend. I finnally got the courage to call up a girl I know. We decided to go out and I was nervous as all hell. So When she first saw me she came up and hugged my arm and leaned on my shoulder... So when we sat down to see the movie (we saw John tucker must die) and She asked me afterwards if I wanted to get a cup of coffee....she doesnt drink coffee but I do . So we sat through the movie.. I didn't try anything cause I wanted to be a Gentleman with her. after the movie was over we were talking and she said "I'm glad we did this and we should definatly get that cup of coffee" to be perfectly honest I thought I was gonna say the wrong thing and screw the date up. We went and she told me how her mom likes me and how I was a Gentleman and about the bad experiences she had with other guys that were jerks. I made her laugh a few times. so it was time to leave and before her mom picked her up she said "Call me" I told her I would she said "Call me more" and smiled... I didnt want to kiss her or anything cause we just got done talking about the Jerks that took advantage of her before.

So I'm thinking I come back home in about three weeks and its her birthday then. Maybe I should take her out for her bday? I dunno
Sorry if Im making a big deal about this but I usually dont go out on dates much... She knows about my AS and she is bipolar so she understands me pretty well.

All and all I would say a good night tho.

Well done, I'm really happy for you. It's good to here a positive relationship story around here every now and then. Good luck and I hope it all works out great
(Yeah it's a generic well wishing I know, but everything is a damn cliche these days). So go man go! and draw the strength from your Aspie brothers!

My advice, if she is getting together with people it might be an idea, on gifts though or paying for anything - don't do it, way too soon.

thanks guys

Good on you. Best wishes for the future.

To address the top half of the quote, great job!:D These are very good signs. Although if you sense that the attraction is there, you can put your arm around the girl while watching a movie; basically, cuddle with her. It seems like it's going to work out. I wish you good luck.

To address the bottom half of the quote, I think you should take her out, but keep it simple and casual. You haven't known her for that long (it seems so from the story), so doing anything extravagant will show desperation on your part, and that's the worst mistake you can make. Try something like a casual restaurant she likes (something in the line of Olive Garden). Don't say to her: "I want to take you out for your birthday;" keep it simple and casual. You san say: "hey, it's your birthday, so let's go somewhere to celebrate." Best of luck.

yeah im gonna keep it casual most definatly

Oh, it is so good to hear a so-far happy story like this. You've gotten farther than a lot of people on the forums, Spectie--congrats, and here's hoping things stay good between you two.