Where can I find a good black woman?

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BrandonSP
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05 May 2011, 11:56 pm

Inspired by the earlier thread about finding Middle Eastern men...

I know I've said this on WrongPlanet before more than once, but I have a strong preference for black women, but unfortunately there aren't many in my current area. I hope there will be more at the university I'll be transferring to after this summer (the university in question is UC San Diego). Failing that, where's a good place to meet black women? I'd especially like a darker-skinned woman with at least some college education.


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06 May 2011, 12:05 am

There are not that many Black people in San Diego. The college educated Black women that are there are typically looking for Black men to form relationships with and marry. Maybe you'll have a class with a Black woman, but that scenario is unlikely given the ethnic ratios at UCSD. My advice would be to post an ad on the local Craigslist with your specifications. Yeah, it's kind of lame, but sense you have such a specific type, you never know who will respond.

This is from a SoCal dark skinned Black woman. I would directly hook you up but my friends are more of the Afrocentric set rather than multiculturalists. Still Cali is home to 1/4 (some say 1/3) interethnic relationships so good luck.



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06 May 2011, 2:26 am

I live in a very diverse area, and while personally I'm not attracted to black women I don't care if anyone else is. That being said, black women that I think might be suitable for a stable relationship with someone (else) are extremely rare even in the most promising areas to look for them.


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06 May 2011, 3:45 am

Oh, this is why I got you mixed up with Brandon_M.



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06 May 2011, 11:18 am

would you settle for a women of spanish or mexican decent? their exotic and hot in their own way, there was a lot of women like this in san diego when I went.

if not, i don't know if you're religious but you could try out a black church and meet a black women there.

I also like black women, but some are extremely loud and obnoxious (not to be stereo-typing) but I've just met a lot of them that are.

There are also a smaller percentage that are quite and sweet, you'd probably want to find someone who is quiter but that would be up to you.

Many of the loud ones are also very nice as well but it takes some getting used to their louder pitch talking.


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06 May 2011, 6:40 pm

Too bad we don't live closer ... my neighborhood is ~85% black. (Yeah, I kinda stick out, but folks are used to me now, I guess. :D )

liveandletdie wrote:
i don't know if you're religious but you could try out a black church and meet a black women there.

This is right on IMO.

liveandletdie wrote:
I also like black women, but some are extremely loud and obnoxious (not to be stereo-typing)

And this is not. <sigh>



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06 May 2011, 9:50 pm

Church. Most will be 'good', but will likely play religious head games with you.


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07 May 2011, 6:29 am

Do a survey outside your streets and your bound to find one. ;)

When I did that, boy did that find so many different people around.
Was doing that for about a week too.


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07 May 2011, 11:19 am

superboyian wrote:
Do a survey outside your streets and your bound to find one. ;)

When I did that, boy did that find so many different people around.
Was doing that for about a week too.


ya seems like a good idea.

people love to think their opinion matters ha.


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