Bored with Dating NTs
While i was in middle school i was pretty withdrawn and went to an aspergers group and things like that. by the time i got to high school i started going to backwoods parts and booze cruising so i became MUCH MUCH MUCH more social. well, as i started to "come out of my shell" my social status seemed to skyrocket. im 18 now and iv only been in a relationship with two girls. one of them was for 4 months and the other one was for a year and a half. but now im curious, both of those girls we're very well loved and popular by the high school crowd. im really wondering if id get more out of a relationship with an aspie girl. do the relationships where both the guy and the girl are aspies seem to be more successful or fail more often?
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It's impossible to know.
For one thing, Aspies share traits, but not all Aspies are the same. So one Aspie girl might be awesome for you, another might not connect at all.
The same goes for NT's. Not all NT's are the same.
Everyone is different. There are a lot of individuals out there, and it does take time to get to know them.
You kind of have to just stay open, and see who you are attracted to. Don't exclude anyone, because you never know how great a person might be until you give them a chance.
*Also - one at a time my friend!, haha*
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