A word to the guys with Asperger disorder.

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Do you ever think that girls or women had ever tell you that you're weird? Because they've told me an it hurt a little bit.

what do you mean?

Like when they are looking at you strangely, and somehow you feel isolated by them.

I used to hate it when I was called weird. It's true though. I am weird, but is that such a bad thing?

Lots of teenage girls hate themselves with a passion you and I can barely comprehend. It makes them mean, sometimes. Show some compassion to the sad girls, and leave the rude ones to grow up a little.

I think that makes sense......I have definitely felt it and seen it too. Been called it a few times by this one girl I liked who might have had a thing for me for a little bit but I guess I blew it and she was almost 5 years younger than me.

You would prefer... what? To be "normal"? To be infinitely replaceable?

What makes you weird makes you worthy of love. Of loving and of being loved.

A word to those who call Asperger's a disorder: we do not call it a "disorder" here. That's what I always say when our local society meets, that we do not call it a disorder here, I'm a stickler for that, we call it a condition if anything.

I have had a woman tell me my "shyness" caused me to give off a weird vibe. The same women wanted to go out with me because her two kids loved hanging out with me when she brought them into work. Normally I would have jumped on the chance to go out with her but I know for a fact she cheated on every guy she went out with. She would brag about to the waitresses and bus boys at the waitress station. When I told her thank you but no she told everyone I wouldn't go out with someone who had kids which was a lie.

Someone who calls you weird odds are are not that great themselves so don't get too broken up over it.

Not in those words, but one in I think grade 4 asked me "Do you like how you are?" or words to that effect, which was kind of a profound question for people of our age, and it didn't bother me until years later when it really occurred to me that it wasn't really a question but an accusation, or am implication that I shouldn't.

I was by a girl I care a lot about that I wasnt her best friend but I was one of her best friends because I 'got her' (understand her) since I had 'my' problems.


That... I don't know... hurt a lot and was sort of a comforting praise at the same time. ugh.

Yeah. Last time, it was from a girl who, judging by the way she and her friend were glancing at me, could be interested in me. After we talked a little (to be honest, they asked questions and I answered in as few words as possible), she told me I am "somewhat weird", thanks to some of my more childish interests. After some more conversation, she said girls won't like me if I am too shy. I actually found her bluntness very enlightening, although I've become more dettached than usual since then (it happened last Easter).