going out with a girl that I met on okcupid about 3 days ago

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14 May 2011, 2:04 pm

Tomorrow I'm going to meet her. I don't know what to expect; I don't know if it's a date, I think it's not. it's more like just two random strangers meeting up. She's 24 and I'm 23, she is a foreigner and has been living in this city for 5 weeks, so I guess that she's looking for friends.

I hope it doesn't get weird :S. What do you guys think? Any comments/advice/tips?



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14 May 2011, 2:13 pm

I forgot to mention that I have a final exam on monday.

Going to a museum with a cute Californian girl or study for my final Cisco exam? No brainer here.



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16 May 2011, 11:03 am

went out with the girl, it was OK I guess, she was way more beautiful in real life than in the picture. We shared drinks and food and get to know each other a bit, there was eye contact and few awkward moments, I felt confident and I sensed she was a bit nervous at times, she asked for my facebook, but apart from that I'm completely BLIND, I don't have a clue if she's attracted to me or just wants to be friends, I don't know what to do next and I have no idea if she likes me, I don't know if she noticed anything weird and I didn't feel a "romantic" connection, I simply cannot interpret body language.

in other news, got 80 out of 100 on the cisco test.



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16 May 2011, 12:36 pm

She asked for the facebook, which is a great sign. Keep it real life, though. Keep meeting up with her. Make the time. :D



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25 May 2011, 1:08 am

UPDATE

Last thursday (19/05/11) I asked her out but she said she had other plans.

Yesterday (23/05/11) she ask me outs, we're going to a museum/restaurant on sunday.

I still don't have a clue if she's attracted to me or just wants to hang out.