ouch....(rubs neck) Honestly I can't take it anymore!! !
I'm 6,3(190.5 cm) and while I've never been too picky about a woman's height; thats all now starting to change. For the last 4 years the only women who had shown any interest in me were between 4,8 and 5,4-ish in height. And while they were very fun, interesting, and nice people. They would often stand real close to me and/or wrap themselves around my arm. This was nice and all but in my attempts to maintain eye contact with them and give them full attention I would get crazy neck pain for looking down too long. Of which I am suffering from now.
Not only that, but because of their size I often feel like I have to be cautious around them, resulting in me not realy being myself. In fact one of the major things that bugged the last women I dated who was 5,2 was that I've never attempted to be physical with her(kissing, cuddling, etc.).
At first I thought this was a lack of "self-confidence" issue. But I'm starting to realize its not really that at all. Mainly because the closer a women is to my height, the more relaxed I am around her and my true fun quirky self becomes easier to see.
I think it has to do with the fact that in my head, my image of people(men and women) are all equal height of me and the closer reality is to that image is, the more comfortable I feel around them.
Does anyone else experience this? and does the height of a person really affect your interest in them?
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