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22 May 2011, 4:32 pm

Hi my name is Kyle i am 21 and i am from Southwestern WI. Sometimes it seems like there is no one out there that understands me and there is no one out there that i can show my affection and appreciation for. I am very intelligent, outgoing and funny. Sometimes i feel lost or that im just meant to be alone it feels like i am born in the wrong era. I wish i could find that affectionate caring person that would love to get to know me and not just so much as glance as me and not take the chance to actually get to now me. PS im not insinuating im ugly



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22 May 2011, 6:00 pm

You will find someone don't worry. There are about 6,775,235,700 people in the world so it will take sometime to find the right person. Be happy and patient. I hope you fell better your not alone.


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22 May 2011, 11:12 pm

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im ugly
No one's ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


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23 May 2011, 1:52 am

KGoebel89 wrote:
Hi my name is Kyle i am 21 and i am from Southwestern WI. Sometimes it seems like there is no one out there that understands me and there is no one out there that i can show my affection and appreciation for. I am very intelligent, outgoing and funny. Sometimes i feel lost or that im just meant to be alone it feels like i am born in the wrong era. I wish i could find that affectionate caring person that would love to get to know me and not just so much as glance as me and not take the chance to actually get to now me. PS im not insinuating im ugly


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23 May 2011, 3:23 am

Bopkasen wrote:
KGoebel89 wrote:
Hi my name is Kyle i am 21 and i am from Southwestern WI. Sometimes it seems like there is no one out there that understands me and there is no one out there that i can show my affection and appreciation for. I am very intelligent, outgoing and funny. Sometimes i feel lost or that im just meant to be alone it feels like i am born in the wrong era. I wish i could find that affectionate caring person that would love to get to know me and not just so much as glance as me and not take the chance to actually get to now me. PS im not insinuating im ugly


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23 May 2011, 3:26 am

MathGirl wrote:
KGoebel89 wrote:
im ugly
No one's ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


i agree with what you say but your taking it out of context



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23 May 2011, 10:48 am

KGoebel89 wrote:
MathGirl wrote:
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im ugly
No one's ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

i agree with what you say but your taking it out of context
I'm not, there will always be somebody in this world who appreciates you for who you are. It may take a while to find these people, but it's not impossible.

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23 May 2011, 12:34 pm

MathGirl wrote:
KGoebel89 wrote:
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KGoebel89 wrote:
im ugly
No one's ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

i agree with what you say but your taking it out of context
I'm not, there will always be somebody in this world who appreciates you for who you are. It may take a while to find these people, but it's not impossible.

For the pictures, use Imageshack. That's what I use.
Not to make you feel silly, but the above statement was "I'm not insinuating I'm ugly", so you did take it completely out of context. But don't fret, it happens. :P



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23 May 2011, 12:55 pm

Insinuating also means "not worthy of investing trust in" or along those lines. I know that people sometimes omit punctuation marks. So it can be taken as I'm not insinuating, I'm ugly. That's how I interpreted it. That's why.

I guess that's where my poor English comprehension skillz come in.


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23 May 2011, 1:14 pm

MathGirl wrote:
Insinuating also means "not worthy of investing trust in" or along those lines. I know that people sometimes omit punctuation marks. So it can be taken as I'm not insinuating, I'm ugly. That's how I interpreted it. That's why.
Hmm, sounds more like the definition is "insidious"? :lol:

Anyways, I would say it's not the best attitude to groan and complain about feeling lonely. I try to live my life day-by-day and find what joy I can in it. If you live your life with minimal regret and fear, and take opportunities that are presented to you, then there's really nothing to feel bad about. Life is really about perception; our perception is what we know.



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23 May 2011, 10:00 pm

You know what helped me? getting active in school. I still am single, but have met many people from doing different events such as public book readings of culture fairs... I find, a lot of girls have boy friends. So lately, I feel alone also but ultimately I know eventually I will find a single girl to test the waters with. until then, GL!


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23 May 2011, 10:48 pm

its good to know i am not the only one out there with AS i appreciate the support.



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23 May 2011, 10:50 pm

KGoebel89 wrote:
its good to know i am not the only one out there with AS i appreciate the support.


You're in good company here. There are times where I feel really lonely too when I'm away from my friends but I take that time to think or work on any of my hobbies. I sometimes enjoy the quiet times. :)



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23 May 2011, 11:02 pm

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23 May 2011, 11:39 pm

You look quite good. I would give you a 7.5 or an 8 on a scale of 10.


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