Unfortunately i'm almost in 100% agreement with the SYMs conclusion but I still stubbornly refuse following their reaction. Knowing full well it's probably condemning me to being not alone single, but a virgin for the imaginable future, sigh.
In before an army of women claim they really do like guys being nice, but all having small ideosyncrasies in their understanding of the word nice that means it's impossible for a guy to live up to their little fantasy.
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"Quantum mechanics teaches us that anything can happen at any time for no reason, also eat plenty of oatmeal, and animals never had a war"