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25 May 2011, 7:46 pm

I am 17 male and in high school and I am often really lonely for relationships I have never had a girlfriend at all in my life although I had have some girls like me but I did not like them because when they liked me they where mean to me. I have a fear of talking to people and I am really nice and never mean to other people but I just have never gone out with anyone. I have been trying to get out of my routine more and talk to more people and get to know them and I have spoken to a few girls but I don't think I am going anywhere. I don't know why I want a girlfriend I guess everyone else I knew has or is having a relationship with someone and I am just alone most of the time. Is this just me?



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25 May 2011, 7:55 pm

yes I feel very lonely all the time and never had anyone and it is something I would like to experience but it is difficult because I was diagnosed later in life and now I am TOFU-(too old,fat,ugly) so I may never experience anything like that :-(


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25 May 2011, 8:15 pm

Yes I feel lonely too. I'm just a fatass girl who is never good enough for men. :(



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25 May 2011, 8:39 pm

I'm lonely... but such is the life of the unlovable.



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25 May 2011, 9:15 pm

I use my solitude to my advantage. That means peace and quiet, more money for me and no drama.


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25 May 2011, 9:30 pm

Nah, I've resigned myself to the idea that it'll likely be a long time before I find love. Until then, I enjoy life for what it is and what it sends.

Quite happy how things are actually. D:



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25 May 2011, 10:13 pm

Yes, im very tired of being lonely. Theres nothing realistic I can do about it, and I dont think I can make myself a happy loner.



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25 May 2011, 10:19 pm

I don't know if any of you have seen this, or if you're even interested but I felt it apt.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7X7sZzSXYs[/youtube]

I'm lonely too, BTW.


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25 May 2011, 10:22 pm

yes...


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25 May 2011, 10:24 pm

I never feel lonely, for I've chosen a life of celebacy.


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25 May 2011, 11:50 pm

Usually - but having a kitten helps.



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26 May 2011, 10:14 am

From time to time I do, but the feeling usually goes away when I retreat to something that interests me. Whenever I look at the other side of the coin, I realize that since I don't have my ship together, it's probably for the better that I'm alone.



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26 May 2011, 10:56 am

Yes, and the worst part is that it's interfering with my will to do anything.



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26 May 2011, 10:47 pm

Do you feel like everyone around you is in a relationship?



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26 May 2011, 11:37 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I don't know if any of you have seen this, or if you're even interested but I felt it apt.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7X7sZzSXYs[/youtube]

I'm lonely too, BTW.


She keeps on talking about the value of these "fleeting communities"... but I don't want something fleeting, I want something that lasts.



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27 May 2011, 5:55 am

I have my times where I feel lonely. I am just feeling blue and wish I had someone to share my thoughts with. This is about 5% of the time. The other 95%, I just frigging love being alone, just being me, doing my stuff at my own pace. I have my fixed times where I do stuff with other people, and that is more company I can take sometimes. Feeling lonely is a bad thing, and when I do, it is something that can really hurt, especially if you look around and see folks getting married and having children. For me, it's just something I have to deal with.