Reasons why you're a bad catch

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I think some people here try to make excuses for themselves instead of trying to fix the problem. The first step is admitting the problem.

I'll start:

I am a bit overweight
I can be negative
I have a liver problem which makes me get annoyed at everything
I never bother with my appearance half the time
I have a terrible attention span.

Possible fixes: Excersise, stop eating cake, take swedish bitters, do something to fix my ADD, get in the sun.

OKay

1) High Blood Pressure
2) Diabetes
3) 80% Kidney Function
4) Live with parents
5) No Job!
6) I take things the wrong way
7) I talk too much about geeky things
8 ) Enlarged Heart
9) Over Weight
10) Over 40

But women have complimented me on how full my lips are and how they wish they had my lips.

I don't have much money, but no debt either, and not much property you can steal.
I may care more about my bird than I do about you.
My truck is sometimes unreliable and I get a strong urge to light it on fire about 3 times a year.
I live right next to my boss and you might not get along with him. Then again maybe you might.
The way I think and my reasons for what I do will probably seem entirely alien to you.
I'm picky about some things like smoking and I have rejected smokers in the past.
I'm not going to add something flaky to my beliefs just to conform or to appear more interesting than I really am, and you should know better than to require that of me.


Possible fixes: just keep saving money. I need to do that anyway. I will continue to keep in shape and maintain a normal body weight. I'm also making an effort to mitigate that varicose vein in my leg. Yes, I know this doesn't quite match, but for now I want to fix the problems that I can fix.

1) I'm distant
2) I'm flighty and forgetful
3) Extremely hard to live with
4) I have some strange ideas about life in general

1) I am a little overweight. Mind you last night I massaged body butter into myself after my relaxing shower, and I actually had a feeling of liking my body, even though it is a number of kilos heavier than I want it to be.

2) I have some really weird neurological problems.

3) The aspergers and low executive function

4) Extremely poor attention span

5) Have difficulty with upkeep of tasks

6) Can be very grumpy and angry

7) Some health problems I have I am trying to fix

Weight doesn't make someone a bad catch.

I am myself. That's enough alone to make me a bad catch.

I think I'm a good catch, for the right person.

All I need is someone who wants a girl who always speaks literally, is childlike, has difficulty getting organized, needs constant direction, is socially awkward, and can't work. There's nothing wrong with that, is there?