Do your fantasies include conversation?

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Just wanted to check if this is common or not for aspie or NTs. When you fantasize/daydream about a member of the opposite sex do you imagine them speaking to you or just doing things to you?

For example Do you imagine/dream that the person will meet you some where and you will say hello etc then you chat to them for a length of time and they move closer to you as they talk and hug you or whatever and then the fantasy ends with them kissing you?

OR

Do you imagine them approaching you somewhere and giving you a hug and a kiss without any kind of conversation taking place?

Whenever I RP with a few girls on this one chat site, there is always build up. I like the story, and the way the tension builds up until we finally just take each other.

hmm.. I talk to myself a lot but if I'm daydreaming about a member of the opposite sex I don't imagine chatting with them with words too much either. I imagine what their personality is like and what the general subject is we are discussing or back story and that seems to be enough for me. One reason might be that I have a terrible time imagining how a conversation might go but when I fantasize about science or history for example it's so much easier to find the correct words because I am simply describing something.

My day dreams sometimes involve an imaginary girl who I have been in love with who knows it but is really not sure she is into me. One day she surprises me and kisses me on the cheek, out of the blue during a conversation. There are no words I use to describe it to myself and I don't imagine what is being said in conversations. I just imagine the emotions between us and growing closer to her. Words aren't necessary if you can just imagine the emotions that they convey.

Sometimes. It depends on my mood and who I'm fantasizing about.

When I fantasize about Miranda Cosgrove I think about telling her how much I love & care about her & about having lots of physical affection & doing lots of other romantic stuff & romantic talks

Both.

All my fantasies involve conversation/spoken intimacy.

Mine don't really involve conversation, but I fantasize almost exclusively about people I'm with/know well, thus we've already conversed plenty.

When I think about my crush, it's mostly about us having conversations while just generally being affectionate (e.g dancing close to him, kissing). Sure, I'll have the odd sexual fantasy, but I mostly just imagine us just hanging out and talking.

they more than often do.

They don't, actually, but they do involve all the other senses (smell, taste, touch, sight).

My fantasies include mewing and roaring.

My fantasy rarely includes soundless cries and unuttered wails of gladness........

The fantasy usually ends with the woman screaming "Ewwww! You got it in my hair!" as I laugh like a mental patient. I am kidding I would never be that mean even in a fantasy.