How to get an Aspie Girl?

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05 Dec 2010, 2:00 pm

I've just been reading some of the posts on here from some of the girls and some of them just seem amazing.

So what is the best way of trying to meet a girl with Aspergers? I know most of them are reclusive like me so I probably won't bump into any in the street.

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05 Dec 2010, 2:16 pm

The internet?

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05 Dec 2010, 2:19 pm

This forum?

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05 Dec 2010, 4:12 pm

Placing and ad?:
"Autie male looking for Aspie female"

Dating sites?
Getting out?
Group activities?
Hobby clubs?
Festivals?
Dating your neighbour?

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05 Dec 2010, 5:40 pm

Chloroform?

Seriously, though. This site has an auxiliary site for dating, among other places. That will make it easier to find them. Other than that... good luck.

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05 Dec 2010, 6:31 pm

We had a thread with, I think, a bit of useful information on this just last week. How to find AS women: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt144244.html

Unfortunately, most of the thread was off-topic. Maybe this one will work out better.

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05 Dec 2010, 6:34 pm

1. Get to know people on aspie sites
2. Go to aspergers support groups
3. Meet as many people as possible
4. Learn to determine "aspie traits" without having to be notified that the person is diagnosed
5. Go to hobby groups for your own interests
6. go to aspie affection

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05 Dec 2010, 6:46 pm

Is this the site? http://www.aspieaffection.com

Is this the kind of thing where you register, spend ages doing your profile only to realise that you have to pay to contact someone?

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05 Dec 2010, 6:50 pm

I'm pretty sure it's free, Adamantus.

hale_bopp wrote:

4. Learn to determine "aspie traits" without having to be notified that the person is diagnosed

Perhaps a difficult one, but if you want to meet Aspie ladies out in the wild :lol:

, great advice. I know I don't go around talking about being Aspergian.

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05 Dec 2010, 6:59 pm

Adamantus wrote:

Is this the site? http://www.aspieaffection.com

Is this the kind of thing where you register, spend ages doing your profile only to realise that you have to pay to contact someone?

when i signed up it didnt say anything about paying but, i was kinda wondering about the too. filling out the profile stuff is easy and quick though.

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05 Dec 2010, 7:30 pm

This site is quite dodgy. I registered and logged in but then the site echoed the db queries on the page. I would be careful, on a practical note it could disclose your email and personal details. I'd be happy to offer assistance into fixing it as I have a lot of knowledge in this area, but don't use Pear too much. Is this Alex's site?

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06 Dec 2010, 5:49 am

it might take a few tries but i recommend using a bear trap.

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06 Dec 2010, 8:21 am

thedaywalker wrote:

it might take a few tries but i recommend using a bear trap.

I have to disagree! Obviously the quickest way to a girl's heart is through her chest.

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06 Dec 2010, 1:57 pm

Luck.

In my experience, anyway :roll:

My GF kind of squeezed me out of the closet, and I asked if she had ever heard of Aspergers, and she replied that she did, that she was pretty sure she had it.

I was like "Woah," ha ha.

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06 Dec 2010, 4:56 pm

Is anyone else on the AA site? No alcoholics anonymous no..

All I see is code in multiple browsers.

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06 Dec 2010, 6:27 pm

In my opinion, the best way to meet other aspies - girls and guys - is through local support groups. I've met lots of other AS males and females that way. If you don't have any local support groups, start your own one.

I personally think trying to meet people over the internet is an anti-productive way to go about things.

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