Longterm relationship

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How NT can be sure that someone with aspergers want longterm relationship ? I am in love with one aspie and he is all my world. How to become a part of his ?

Did you try asking?

Yes ... And I am in relationship with him,but he says that I am too emotional and he does not understand me. How I can proof my love,how I can make him realize (if not feel) my love,how I can make him believe that I genuinly love him for all his good and bad, and want to be there for him... He is dear,lovely person,he is smart and beautiful,he is everything I love and need but sometimes I feel he does not need me

Maybe I should ... Its hard... Two months ago he moved to other country and I can see him only once in a month... I thought he has enough space... The problem is that I need him in my space, I need him next to me... We talk on the phone...he says he misses me, and I know,I can feel that he misses me...but we are apart,and I wish I could be sure that he want us together... I guess everybody's destiny is unique and there is no advise that could tell me what is best for us...to stay and live from telephone call to telephone call or to move on...I am trying my best to understand him...I know I can't change him...I am changing myself...but I am afraid there are no results. Anyway thanks...

Thank you You put a smile on my face You are right, I should be the girl he met before , and with whom he wanted to start a relationship... I am reading a lot about aspergers since he told me about it, just because I want to understand him and just because I dont want to loose him... Thank you again