Anyone want to date an imprisoned felon?

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pandabear
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29 Jun 2011, 5:27 pm

http://www.meet-an-inmate.com/

There are several similar websites out there.

I suppose if one were supremely desperate....



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29 Jun 2011, 5:32 pm

i considered writing to a death-row person once cos i thought it'd be interesting

not for nookie or anything though



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29 Jun 2011, 6:17 pm

OP: That's extremely dangerous an I recommend you delete that link. Most of them will gladly take advantage of an ASD person's poor people skills for malicious purposes if they get out.


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29 Jun 2011, 6:22 pm

Sounds promising!


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29 Jun 2011, 6:39 pm

Yummy LaSaundra!
Makes my heart go all a patter



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29 Jun 2011, 6:40 pm

This reminds me me of an ending on a King Of The Hill ep. Bill is waiting outside a prison & offers a just released inmate a ride. She says I'm driving. Bill says OK & then ask what she was in there for. She says killed my boyfriend. Bill says So your single :twisted: :lol:

I've thought about that before but I think I'd be safer trying the mail-order bride route


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29 Jun 2011, 6:43 pm

conjical visits in a womans prison....so many things come to mind!


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29 Jun 2011, 6:59 pm

Crystal from Wisconsin has that girl next door look and gets released in 2013 :heart:



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29 Jun 2011, 7:05 pm

If all inmates were that attractive...

...it's not like I'd be moving in with them, geeze :roll:


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29 Jun 2011, 8:23 pm

Have fun getting beaten up or use to hearing excuses why they will not work. If it was like drug charges like dealing weed maybe. But you do not know why they comitted their crime they also could have plead bargin for a lesser crime after they did something major. They could have been supporting a drug habbit or had to provide for a gambling debt. Right now that they are incarcerated they are clean and drug free. But once they don't have a prison guard looking up their as*hole to ferret out the drugs they will be going back to previous bad behavior. Also the criminal might be in for one charge but is a sex offender who has never been caught or a murderer. Inmates also pick up TB, HIV, and Hepititus while in prison and they do not have to tell you if they have it or not. They also have a habit of talking the women they write to smuggle thing in for them or to send them money. These guys will write to five or six women trying to get whatever they can from them. I had a buddy who did credit card fraud and some drug charges he had two women fighting over him to see who he was going to stay with when he got out. He bragged he made more money getting women sending him money then what he made working with me at a resteraunt. :roll:

Everyone of the women who wrote to him were lonely with a good paying job who felt sorry for him. They were keeping his commissary account filled so he could have sodas, chips, tuna fish, cheese, and other goodies from the prison store. He told them his little sob story about him having ADHD and could only get low paying jobs. I don't believe they bought his BS. He now lives with a woman he wrote to. She is a registered nurse and takes care of him like he is a child. :roll: He has job training he got in prison but he can't hold down a job he blames it on his ADHD so she lets him stay home and do nothing. :roll:

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OP: That's extremely dangerous an I recommend you delete that link. Most of them will gladly take advantage of an ASD person's poor people skills for malicious purposes if they get out.


A former prison inmate would love to meet someone with Asperger's Syndrome since it is hard for us to read body language or when someone is lying to us.


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29 Jun 2011, 8:29 pm

I would consider someone who's in there for hippie political demonstrations like stealing animals from a research lab


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29 Jun 2011, 8:38 pm

If you read the FAQs--I think that you can find out what they're in for from their state, with their prison ID.



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29 Jun 2011, 8:44 pm

Whatever happened to people paying their debt to society?

We really need criminal justice reform.


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29 Jun 2011, 9:00 pm

I did once write to a prisoner on Death Row in California, if I recall rightly.
This must be about 10 years ago, and I only had a few letters as I lost interest.
He was highly intelligent, could only say he had murdered one person, and was one of the longest serving prisoners on Death Row, who had had multiple appeals. I imagine he is dead now. I just was curious, I suppose. He liked Chess.


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29 Jun 2011, 9:43 pm

i was penpals with an inmate when i was 16, and he was 22.

he used to draw tattoo-style art pictures with red, black, and blue ink pens on the inside of old cigarette packages. he had trouble finding blank paper, so when he wrote letters he would write really tiny so that he would not waste space.

he was in for grand theft auto and felony theft charges. about 6 months later he was released, when he was 23 and i was 17. we dated for a few weeks. on our first date, he picked me up in a stolen car and gave me a stuffed animal he lifted from a department store.

that car ran out of gas and my parents knew what the deal was. they brought us a jerry can of gas, and didn't say a word until after i had broken up with him. they knew all about him, as i did not hide his background. i think they decided they had no right to judge as my dad did time in his youth too.

this guy tried to turn his life around, but by the time he was 25 his rap sheet was pretty daunting. he was always looking for a mark and never content to live without constant adrenalin. he could not physically relax. every so often, when his life got too hard on the outside, he would commit a crime and stay on the scene to get caught. for him, it was easier to be on the inside.

i last saw him when i was about 27 and he was about 33. he was homeless, begging for money. i felt sad for him and didn't let him recognise me so that he would not be embarrassed, but i found a way to get a small amount of cash to him.

in my younger years i often ended up dating various types of mentally unstable men, but when i got older i went for more stable and honest types.


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30 Jun 2011, 3:00 am

Don't have any experience with that sort of thing (and women are in minority when it comes to being criminal), but I went to school with a girl that at the time we were 13th (yes, we used to have 13 years of school in Germany) grade in High School, was with a man that just served time. Without wanting to sound shallow, she was a very obese girl, she had low grades and next to no self-esteem, and she "met" him - of course - via online-dating. From what she told he was in jail for aggravated assault, armed and aggravated robbery, hostage taking and some sexual assault. Nice cocktail, isn't it? Now, naturally, he served quite some time for this mix, and I only heard recently that it did not work out between the two once he was released... that is the short version, and I guess everyone can figure the details by themselves. Not that I do not believe that people can change, but there is this old saying that a leopard can't change its spots. Wouldn't you agree, OJ?