Inner beauty Myth

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Ok ...I know that I opened a similair thread but read this article and comment:
http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static/da ... auty-tango

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read. check!

comment..

what gives? It is some guys memorire of how he went on to be a beauty critic after some chick who he liked in elementary school was beautiful, then was ugly, then was beautiful again--only when he approached her she turned him down....then he realized... attractiveness happens when they like him too..

I'm not sure what the comment should be on.

I worry that nobody finds 5'10" and 190 lbs. attractive.

Tim

sure they do...

and 5'3 190
and 6'2 190


in fact, there was just this younger male I've dropped to work and *almost* worked with the other night. Some of us were pulling double shifts, and I offered deoderant. He joked about my smelling his armpit and raised it up in offer---

I had to refuse telling him I couldnt possibly get that close as it would raise my limbido.

he was around 5'10 190. But--that doesn't mean beauty is in the specs. It was both his perfect proportion, his mass, his baby face, soft hair, and genuine boy-like personality in general. He's a no, for being too troubled in general. But he was very very hot!!

I am basing my opinions on the fact that nobody wants to meet me, and that I feel I am being written off romantically because I am not attractive enough, and that I don't make enough money. I try to be myself, and be as nice a person as I can, but nothing works.

Finding another Aspie who want to be with me is virtually impossible, and the NTs don't want to give me a chance.

Tim

Well...you are all teeth with bulging eyes..

???

I'm in no position to talk--

That's horrible Tim~have you explored 'e' harmony, foriegn marriage, or church?

e-harmony is a horrible horrible site. They can't helop about 20% of the population, because those 20% don't fit into the little preset molds they have for matchmaking. You can bet your arse that aspies won't fit.

I keep trying to be a good person, one that makes me emotionally presentable to people. I am honest, respectful, caring. Why doesn't anyone see that in me?

Tim

Tim, what's your aspie affection nick? I will go read and report back to you my worthless dating advice.



I don't think it's because you don't come across as emotionally caring and pleasant. Maybe it is like my want for perfect employment. I've spent no time on my resume and I lack information on where I want to be, what's out there, ect. I've spent no time preparing myself or even applying--yet I WANT, and wonder, how come my dream employer hasn't snatched me up?

My AA nickname is timhomer2007.

Tim

I can tell you that they found zero matches for me. Not that Match.com or OK Cupid have done much better... (Met two halfway decent matches from the former & a very good match from the latter. Well, good matches for me. Pity I wasn't a good match for what they were looking for. )

I still keep trying to be nice, honest, and all the qualities that people want. Nobody answers my Aspie Affection ad, and there are no Aspie women who live in Boise, ID (where I will likely be going to school), or willing to do a long-distance relationship. Nobody wants to meet me.

Tim

I wish more people would post ads there, semi-detailed ads and some pics, and more detailed search options.

Seattle, Portland, and SLC are ok in lieu of Boise. If I met someone who lived one of those places, I could swing by every other weekend. Still a few hundred miles away, but still manageable.

Tim

I'd post another ad but as most of you know it unnerves me when only other men look at my ad inspite of requests that they stop doing so.

But most people are superficial and only look at the outer package.

Last edited by whiteskunk on 06 Sep 2006, 9:09 am, edited 1 time in total.

An adult doesn't have to be a Twig, to be attractive.