Guy(Me) wants to meet straight tomboys or androgynous girls.

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I know this is gonna sound weird, but I don't like to many girls. Is like they this got these certain personalities, "Jersey Shore"- kinda personalities that annoy me. Is like they're heartless or something. So I wrote this topic so I can meet girls that love what guys love. You know:Comics/manga, movies, sports ("although I'm not a big fan"), video games, hip hop/rap/rock music, etc.

And another thing: I'm 15 years old, and I'm a nice guy.

There are girls out there just like that but they don't look like the girls who watch Jersey Shore. They look very different from the girls who spend so much time on themselves that they have the deep tan, the flirty make-up, the eye-catching dyed hair and the figure-flattering wardrobe.

I was "one of those girls" (tomboy) who loved all sorts of "boy" things PLUS really liked boys. BUT, all the boys, even the ones nobody wanted, only wanted the mainstream hotties in the short skirt and tight t-shirt. They'd complain about not being able to find a girl who wasn't a shallow, annoying b*tch, but what they really meant was that they wanted the mainstream hotties to pay attention to them. They really didn't care if she liked what they liked or had thoughts about politics or Star Wars. Mind you, I wasn't even ugly. I was a knock-out if I put the time and energy into my look as those girls did into their looks. I just wasn't comfortable when I did that crap. I ended up abandoning the tomboy look and took all my angst into an industrial/vampire/goth/anger phase. That turned heads in good and bad ways but by that time, I'd moved on from high school guys and was dating older ones with places to party.

So, first make sure that what you say you want is actually what you want. Then make sure that you're not overlooking anyone.

Isn't there anyone else? Anyone?

*straight tomboy raises hand*

You're a bit to young for me, but just want to let you know that girls like me do exist.

Try the Adolescent Autism Forum if you haven't already: http://www.wrongplanet.net/forum22.html

That's a place for people your age that will exclude old folks like us.

Pff, horses and nature? Try gaming and reading sci fi. Wrong generation :)

If ever i see a girl that i find attractive I pretty much don't look anymore, she might be nice to look at but that illusion lasts only so long as i takes for me to talk to her and realise that she doesn't interest me. Attractive is important but when it comes down to it I've ended relationships with girls/ don't even look anymore because the personality has ended up becoming more important than looks.

I liked visiting the arcade and skate shop when I was young. Now its probably the gaming store. I would usually hang out with my brother and friends. So just because you see a girl with a guy or a group of guys does not necessarily mean she is "with" any of them. They could just be related too. If your into cars you might find someone at a car show too. But their usually the person under the car not on it.

Now for appearance. A no worry hairdo. I use to just do my hair and no makeup, special interest T-shirts, ripped jeans, or cargos, skate shoes maybe. Think comfort but cool, no frills.

My boyfriend is androgynous... he looks very feminine. It's how most of the Japanese boys are in Japan. But he is very sweet and super adorable. His body is smaller and also more feminine like as well as his face. He's tall but most people think he is skinny because of how small his body is.

Though, I never knew girls could be like that. I am a tomboy and I've always been a bit boyish but no one has ever really seen my as a boy.

girls who play videogames = instant win in my book

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Three words for you- girl hockey players. From my experience they seem to pick up on our typically meek and passive demeanors and are for some reason turned on by it. Just be warned, if you do go this route, you most likely will not be wearing the pants in that particular relationship. Just my two cents. I've never had a gf either but I get more attention from the above mentioned girls and girls who are on the tall side. Hope this helps!

NOW I'M 16 YEARS OLD. ISN'T THERE ANY 16-YEAR OLD TOMBOY GIRL THAT WANTS TOO TALK TO ME?