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Ok what if a girl liked you and you didnt like her and she wouldnt back off? Then how would you feel/react.
I can definitely relate to this, a couple years ago some girl from law school that I find completely unattractive started spending too much time around me, my then girlfriend went berserk over the whole thing for some reason and that eventually led to us breaking up. After the break up the girl started spending even more time around me and eventually we even ended up working in the same office, unfortunately I sort of started hanging out a lot with her but then found out she just didn't like me but was kind of obsessed with me.
One night she brought a friends of hers to a party and we really hit it off, since we started dating she went berserk on her friend and me (even though in theory no one knew she liked me yet she was clearly obsessed with me). I have dated her former friend for the past 8 months (soon to break up anyways) and now she doesn't speak to me when we come across each other, personally I don't care but it's very funny since she's the crazy one.
My advice to men is to enjoy casually when a girl you don't like likes but never give her hope, if she likes you in a creepy way run fast and run far (and don't even give the slightest impression it might be reciprocate).
To women, be persistent at first but if the guy doesn't really appreciate you just back off and find another one, if you feel like you're obsessing please go see a mental health professional.