Not letting this put me down?

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Jamesy
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07 Apr 2015, 8:06 am

Today in the park i saw this girl for the first time for a while who fancied me like 2 years ago. I saw her talking to a friend of mine and he raised his eyebrows to greet me. She did glance at me and waved but then went back to talking to her friend and did not look at me anymore. (

Tell me why i should not let her reaction put me down? I don't think she really noticed me :(



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10 Apr 2015, 7:30 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Today in the park i saw this girl for the first time for a while who fancied me like 2 years ago. I saw her talking to a friend of mine and he raised his eyebrows to greet me. She did glance at me and waved but then went back to talking to her friend and did not look at me anymore. (

Tell me why i should not let her reaction put me down? I don't think she really noticed me :(


She's an acquaintance you haven't seen in two years, she acknowledged you by waving at you.

Two years is a l-o-n-g t-i-m-e, she might not even remember your name or that she may once have thought you were cute.

Have you considered that your expectations of random acquaintances you haven't seen in years are unrealistic??



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10 Apr 2015, 8:07 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Tell me why i should not let her reaction put me down? I don't think she really noticed me :(


Her reaction may not say anything about you or how she feels about you.

But if she didn't really notice you and no longer fancies you, she's just one person. Other women may notice you and fancy you.


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