Is it easier to date?

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Is it easier to date some with or with out AS? I have date women wihtout and they never understand.

It depends. Aspie girls may be more straightforward, like both NT and aspie males are, but I've never dated an aspie girl myself, not that I know of, anyhow. It's impossible to say for sure.

Not really that much difference once I got my foot in the door, although that hasn't happened that often.

Tim

I think it might be easier, but only if you are compatible and able to talk freely. Certainly an Aspie partner should be more understanding and might also share interests and habits which you have.

The down side is that if you're both Aspies and manage to annoy each other, it's really gonna be hell!

Well NT women tend to dance around things and are less likely to be as straightforward as aspie females. I say this because I am extremely straightforward whereas all the NT women I know are not. But they are not all bad either. They just may not understand is all, and people can react weirdly when they don't understand. Despite this, don't shun the idea of dating an NT woman, because for some it makes no difference really if they feel you are compatible with them.

It really depends on the individuals involved, people are all quite different really, no two aspies will be exactly the same anymore than two NTs will be.

You'd be silly to limit yourself to either group, the more chances you give the better chance of finding someone who works well with you. I've only ever dated one girl who might have been an aspie (in retrospect anyway) since she was just like me, the problem is that she was hard work, I had to make all the effort all the time with conversation and stuff like that. NT girls vary even more, find a good one and she will be just as good if not better than any aspie girl (in my opinion anyway )