Sugar Spice and Everything NIce

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I like to be in a relationship with a girl that is sweet loving kind caring I guess im a guy that.

Goes after the nice girl types I guess im just a hopeless romantic that wants a fairy tell like.

Relationship still havent found my princess yet I think its because I care to much about her.

To ask her out I would hate it if we broke up an it ended up freindship just dont know what to do.

I would really like advice from women on the madder its been bothering me for a while now

If you are extremely attached to your fantacy of her, then you already have what you need. You have already created an endless mental treadmill you can run in with the fantacy intact.

If you want to date this particular woman then you will have to risk rejection And risk getting to know her.

You get to choose.

There's always a risk involved with relationships. If she says yes, you might gain a great relationship. If she says no, you lose your friendship. If you don't do anything, you at least keep your fantasies. It's your choice: 0%, 50% or 100%.

Nothing wrong with being a hopeless romantic, though

Im on a similar situation to OP and my main problem right now is that its too idealized and the few girls that met this criteria were already taken/ there was a huge age gap/clearly out of my league.

I dont complain about being single because its sorta my own choice, Im looking for a girl thats nice, and doesnt mind my quirkiness, and so far I havent met one that was datable so Ive kept looking.

Several acquaintances that have asked me why was I single(some people have odd conversation openers) have mentioned the possibility of trying to be more outgoing/settling for something that wasnt what I was looking for or something but Ive tried this in the past and Ive realized that you can only keep an illusion for a short period and then things go badly from there.

I am a risk taker by nature I always flirt with danger I never feared rejection I have had plenty of

Hits and misses when it comes to asking women out the main problem I have had is that I

Rarely do the asking out I just wait for them to come to me but I like her because she really is

Sugar spice and everything nice their isnt anything mean about her I am the same way at heart

I asked her if she wanted to go to the beach with me in October she said it depends on her

School schedual she is in college I plan on going to college next year she doesnt date a lot

And neither do I its mainly because of choice so I think the best time to ask her out is when we

Get to know each other a little better I am just thankful that my heart doesnt lie she could be

End up being the one