zeepk88 wrote:
I love a girl, but she loves some other guy.. i will die with out her.. i told her that many times and asked her that i love you please marry me. but she refused..
She is a very good friend of mine she enjoys the time with me and she love to have time with me but not ready to love me because she love that guy...
Please help me ans save my life......
Please tell me some way.... dont answer me that leave her and move on... pleaseeeee..........
Because this is the only thing that is impossible for me.....
Its easy for me do die but not possible to leave her.....
Please Help....
First of all, let me say that I empathize with you. I've been there. Thought I was going to die without her. But you won't.
Secondly, you can't put that much pressure on another human being. It's not fair to her or to you. Telling her you will 'die without her' is emotional blackmail. That sort of talk is pushing her away. You can't force her to love you. And really, would you WANT to force her? That would be a hollow existence.
You need to giver her space to make up her mind. Date more girls. I'm serious. I know that's not what you wanted to hear, but you need more practice dating and being with girls. Who knows, she might even see how much fun you are with other girls and realize how cool you are and come back to you.