Love Triangle...... Save my Life....

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zeepk88
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22 Sep 2011, 12:03 pm

I love a girl, but she loves some other guy.. i will die with out her.. i told her that many times and asked her that i love you please marry me. but she refused..
She is a very good friend of mine she enjoys the time with me and she love to have time with me but not ready to love me because she love that guy...

Please help me ans save my life......

Please tell me some way.... dont answer me that leave her and move on... pleaseeeee..........
Because this is the only thing that is impossible for me.....
Its easy for me do die but not possible to leave her.....
Please Help....



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22 Sep 2011, 12:05 pm

zeepk88 wrote:
I love a girl, but she loves some other guy.. i will die with out her.. i told her that many times and asked her that i love you please marry me. but she refused..
She is a very good friend of mine she enjoys the time with me and she love to have time with me but not ready to love me because she love that guy...

Please help me ans save my life......


I think you need to see a therapist. You have an abnormal tendency, such as asking to marry even though you haven't date her and probably lacks reasoning.



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22 Sep 2011, 12:08 pm

Concentrate on something else until this obsession goes away.

And don't get weird about it. If you are polite and understanding, you might have a chance with her somewhere down the road.



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22 Sep 2011, 12:10 pm

My dear i have been loving her from last more then 2 years......
she never hangout in her life but strarted it with me first time and since the time we know each other we have been going to various dating points, some times daily....



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22 Sep 2011, 12:14 pm

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My dear i have been loving her from last more then 2 years......
she never hangout in her life but started it with me first time and since the time we know each other we have been going to various dating points, some times daily....


But, her nose pointed to someone else? Whatever. It still naive to think that she stop loving other guy and instantly marrying you.



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22 Sep 2011, 12:15 pm

That is the reason i am here and looking some one to help me...



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22 Sep 2011, 12:16 pm

zeepk88 wrote:
That is the reason i am here and looking some one to help me...


It still naive to think that she stop loving other guy and instantly marrying you.

However, there is a ancient secret love potion that I can make.



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22 Sep 2011, 12:18 pm

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However, there is a ancient secret love potion that I can make.


What do you mean...?????????



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22 Sep 2011, 12:23 pm

Bopkasen wrote:
zeepk88 wrote:
That is the reason i am here and looking some one to help me...


It still naive to think that she stop loving other guy and instantly marrying you.

However, there is a ancient secret love potion that I can make.


Amortentia?



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22 Sep 2011, 12:24 pm

The first rule of life is to preserve your dignity and self-respect.

It is not real love unless you want, above all else, for her to be happy.

Be strong, be a gentleman, and graciously accept her choice. Even if she loves someone else, she will at least respect you.

Do not underestimate the value of being respected.



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22 Sep 2011, 12:26 pm

AsteroidNap wrote:
Bopkasen wrote:
zeepk88 wrote:
That is the reason i am here and looking some one to help me...


It still naive to think that she stop loving other guy and instantly marrying you.

However, there is a ancient secret love potion that I can make.


Amortentia?


LOL! I googled it. You made a reference to the Harry Potter book.



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22 Sep 2011, 12:35 pm

zeepk88 wrote:
I love a girl, but she loves some other guy.. i will die with out her.. i told her that many times and asked her that i love you please marry me. but she refused..
She is a very good friend of mine she enjoys the time with me and she love to have time with me but not ready to love me because she love that guy...

Please help me ans save my life......

Please tell me some way.... dont answer me that leave her and move on... pleaseeeee..........
Because this is the only thing that is impossible for me.....
Its easy for me do die but not possible to leave her.....
Please Help....


First of all, let me say that I empathize with you. I've been there. Thought I was going to die without her. But you won't.

Secondly, you can't put that much pressure on another human being. It's not fair to her or to you. Telling her you will 'die without her' is emotional blackmail. That sort of talk is pushing her away. You can't force her to love you. And really, would you WANT to force her? That would be a hollow existence.

You need to giver her space to make up her mind. Date more girls. I'm serious. I know that's not what you wanted to hear, but you need more practice dating and being with girls. Who knows, she might even see how much fun you are with other girls and realize how cool you are and come back to you.



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22 Sep 2011, 12:57 pm

Bopkasen wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
Bopkasen wrote:
zeepk88 wrote:
That is the reason i am here and looking some one to help me...


It still naive to think that she stop loving other guy and instantly marrying you.

However, there is a ancient secret love potion that I can make.


Amortentia?


LOL! I googled it. You made a reference to the Harry Potter book.


Yeah, ;) Some people say I'm a wealth of useless information, haha.



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22 Sep 2011, 2:19 pm

Unrequited love sucks.

Put this woman out of your mind and fast.

Take that potion that AsteroidNap found for you!

Joking, but really, if she said no and she has a boyfriend already, this is a lost cause and you are just spinning your wheels. Unless you enjoy torturing yourself and pining for what you can't have. :roll:



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22 Sep 2011, 5:32 pm

Love is one thing you can't buy or force.

You will get over her. Everyone does. At the time you think they're the only one for you but it always changes. I've liked guys for a lot loner than two years and it does go away.

Stop torturing yourself and quit spending a lot of time with her.



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22 Sep 2011, 7:49 pm

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i will die with out her.



Unless she is your sole source of food, water or oxygen, no you won't.


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