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23 Sep 2011, 6:35 am

someone I like if they are an NT, or if they are on the spectrum. it seems like she is....and I want to figure out. she doesn't seem like a normal boring nt. :)
one funny thing, she was quiet for a long time only to say. "you smell Delicious" it was very funny, I was wearing a cologne that smells really good.



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23 Sep 2011, 7:16 am

The world isn't divided into interesting people and NT's.



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23 Sep 2011, 7:25 am

hale_bopp wrote:
The world isn't divided into interesting people and NT's.
I'm more or less curious!



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23 Sep 2011, 7:27 am

An interesting person does not mean aspie.

A boring person does not mean NT. I've met interesting NT's, and boring aspies. And vice versa.



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23 Sep 2011, 7:33 am

hale_bopp wrote:
An interesting person does not mean aspie.

A boring person does not mean NT. I've met interesting NT's, and boring aspies. And vice versa.
f**k off, your annoying, she had quirks, and it was kinda cute.



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23 Sep 2011, 7:35 am

I'm curious what cologne you were sporting. I never use it.

As to asking her...it feels a little intrusive. Perhaps you can just mention that you're an Aspie, and if she volunteers the same, well you have your answer.


And I agree with Hale Bopp. Interesting or boring is a trait found across humanity. On top of that, what I find interesting or boring will be different than your taste as well.



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23 Sep 2011, 7:42 am

Sextaesada wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
An interesting person does not mean aspie.

A boring person does not mean NT. I've met interesting NT's, and boring aspies. And vice versa.
f**k off, your annoying, she had quirks, and it was kinda cute.


Don't start being a prick because someone has a different point of view than you.

and I just so happen to agree with hale_bopp, there are interesting people within all groups of people and boring people in all groups, it just depends on what you think is "interesting" and what's "boring".

But if this girl has something that you love then its worth a shot to try and get with her.



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23 Sep 2011, 11:57 am

Sextaesada wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
An interesting person does not mean aspie.

A boring person does not mean NT. I've met interesting NT's, and boring aspies. And vice versa.
f**k off, your annoying, she had quirks, and it was kinda cute.


ahahaha, short fuse or what? f*****g relax man.

Does it matter to you if she's aspie or not? She is what she is. If you really want to know, go ahead. Keep in mind she may not even know (assuming she is), and that she may lie to you, or she may think you're a dick for confronting her like that.



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23 Sep 2011, 12:01 pm

Sextaesada wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
An interesting person does not mean aspie.

A boring person does not mean NT. I've met interesting NT's, and boring aspies. And vice versa.
f**k off, your annoying,


hmm.

Nah.

I don't own an annoying either, it must be someone else's.


:lmao: :lmao:



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23 Sep 2011, 12:56 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Sextaesada wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Nah.

I don't own an annoying either, it must be someone else's.


:lmao: :lmao:


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23 Sep 2011, 2:46 pm

similar to what other people have noted, Sextaesada: telling people to "f**k off" and calling them "annoying" is not acceptable. also, DeanAdamFry: it is appreciated that you tried to restore the situation but telling the OP he is acting like a "prick" is equally against the rules, and The_Perfect_Storm, thank you for the effort but telling someone to "f**king relax" is never going to have its desired effect (plus it is ALSO unacceptable).

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please resume the discussion without cussing at each other and throwing out personal insults. thank you.


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23 Sep 2011, 3:01 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
similar to what other people have noted, Sextaesada: telling people to "f**k off" and calling them "annoying" is not acceptable. also, DeanAdamFry: it is appreciated that you tried to restore the situation but telling the OP he is acting like a "prick" is equally against the rules, and The_Perfect_Storm, thank you for the effort but telling someone to "f**king relax" is never going to have its desired effect (plus it is ALSO unacceptable).

this is a good point to familiarise yourself with the rules:

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please resume the discussion without cussing at each other and throwing out personal insults. thank you.


Fair enough, sorry for the trouble.



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24 Sep 2011, 6:26 am

lol