List of Blunders: how to avoid (for men and dating)

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Maybe the gender role reversed can work out, but I don't know for sure. Here is a link, with an article written by an experienced man diagnosed with autism. I do find quite a bit from this experience to be very true. And the rules are necessary.

http://www.autismsupportnetwork.com/news/autistic-men-my-all-time-list-social-blunders-how-avoid-them

That sounds to me like good advice for anyone, male or female, ASD or not.

The only one I question in that article is meeting for lunch. I've always perceived lunch as a "friend" kind of thing.

If you feel sympathy for each other, but are yet not in the level of love/partnership, whats wrong about doing friendstuff with a friend?

I noticed the article had more to do with dating and courting than it did friendship. Considering my work and research on self-defeating patterns of behaviour, I do think that this article is very helpful.

As much as I appreciate the honesty, I'm not sure the best way to start an article on this subject is to describe the slow disintegration of your marriage.

Thanks, aspiemike.