This girl in my class said she would pose nude?

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27 Nov 2011, 4:02 am

She saw me talking with this girl who was sitting near me and then in spite of me(I'm pretty sure), she starts talking to the girl next to her and suddenly is like: "me and my bf this and me and my bf that...etc." and she NEVER did that even once since the semester began and suddenly she is talking throwing bf in some of her sentences to the other students(not me) and she literally started doing this right after she noticed that this other girl in my class was talking with me. Then just last class, she was sitting far from me only because her seat was taken by another girl and every once in a while, I would look over and she would be boring holes into the side of my head! Then the professor asked us if any of us would participate in an experiment where we could possibly get injured and after silence, she said: "yes I would" and then at random said: "I would pose nude too." Seriously...wtf is wrong with this girl? I think she is just full of herself and thinks she is so attractive. After she said that people were just looking around and some of them had such awkward looks on their faces it was crazy. What made it so weird is that it was completely out of the blue and had nothing to do with the content of the lesson! If this girl is saying: "me and my bf this..." and also saying things like: "I would be willing to pose nude"...what does this crap all mean? Women are difficult enough to understand...even when they aren't trying to be difficult. This one is a total enigma to me. Can the women on here please explain to me why she checks me out and then says crap like this?



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27 Nov 2011, 4:06 am

It strikes me as pretty weird when a girl randomly talks about doing sexual stuff, especially to a teacher. I would be very wary.



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27 Nov 2011, 4:10 am

hale_bopp wrote:
It strikes me as pretty weird when a girl randomly talks about doing sexual stuff, especially to a teacher. I would be very wary.


Well I know she is really weird and that I want nothing to do with her anymore. Frankly, I am totally over her and I have since turned my focus to this other girl, who is really sweet and never says weird stuff like that. So I am guessing you have no clue what makes her tick? She annoys a lot of people in my class. I even overheard this one guy in my class point her out to his friend when we were all walking back to our cars and he said something like "that chick over there is such a b****."



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27 Nov 2011, 8:42 am

As a woman, I can't say that I've ever done something like when trying to win the favor of a guy. Having been a nude art model I can say that it's really not all that exciting (I usually try to sleep or read...nudity just becomes normalized). I'd guess she's probably trying to sound cool by acting sexually experienced/adventurous. That would make sense, given that you said that others find her annoying as well. Your instinct sounds good; it's probably best to just stay away from her.

Good luck with your new crush. :)



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27 Nov 2011, 9:08 am

Agemaki wrote:
As a woman, I can't say that I've ever done something like when trying to win the favor of a guy. Having been a nude art model I can say that it's really not all that exciting (I usually try to sleep or read...nudity just becomes normalized). I'd guess she's probably trying to sound cool by acting sexually experienced/adventurous. That would make sense, given that you said that others find her annoying as well. Your instinct sounds good; it's probably best to just stay away from her.

Good luck with your new crush. :)



What's the difference between a nude model and a nude art model?

I always thought it's just in the lighting.



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27 Nov 2011, 11:24 am

I suppose the inclusion of the word "art" could be somewhat redundant. I used it mainly for clarification. Though I suppose that given limitless possibilities, a nude model could be used for purposes other than figure drawing. Since figure drawing wasn't specified in the context of the girl's statement about posing nude I couldn't be sure what her intention was.



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27 Nov 2011, 10:34 pm

Well honestly...I am just going to be trying to return to China because my real crush is there waiting for me. I hope to return there this spring at the earliest. Most women that I meet here in California are just too strange to me.



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29 Nov 2011, 7:15 am

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Well honestly...I am just going to be trying to return to China because my real crush is there waiting for me. I hope to return there this spring at the earliest. Most women that I meet here in California are just too strange to me.


Don't feel bad, I've lived in California my whole life and most of the women here are too strange for me too.


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30 Nov 2011, 12:29 pm

Either the subject was just dominant in her thoughts and frame of reference, or she was trying to get a message out to someone else in that classroom.

Either way it's a weird thing to blurt out, but certainly nothing that warrants a 'wft is wrong with this girl'. She just has a private life that an outsider like yourself has little means to guess at. Insofar as she is giving you, personally, signals, I would say that the message is "I'm taken", with the modelling thing appearing unrelated... perhaps she'd caught you looking at her, and imagined flirtation on your part?



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30 Nov 2011, 8:50 pm

Perhaps she just likes attention because she doesn't get much at home or something? There must be some type of underlying issue for how she acts out. However, it's not your job to find out. Leave that to the professionals. Just leave her be and hopefully she'll come to terms with herself somehow. :)



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01 Dec 2011, 3:42 am

Shes trying to shock people my guess. This also reminds me of the time a girl joked around with saying that she hopes the chaplin would see her changing and leave his wife.



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06 Dec 2011, 9:09 pm

I offered a girl once in college to strip for me and a buddy. She chickened out.



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06 Dec 2011, 9:14 pm

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I offered a girl once in college to strip for me and a buddy. She chickened out.


Gee, I wonder why. Sounds a little creepy if you ask me. :roll:



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07 Dec 2011, 2:01 am

Erisad wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
I offered a girl once in college to strip for me and a buddy. She chickened out.


Gee, I wonder why. Sounds a little creepy if you ask me. :roll:

OMG Erisad how could you be so insensitive.

This guy is talking about a rejection that changed his life and you are calling him creepy, what is wrong with you?.

(Just so we are clear this post is an attempt of humour, feel free to tear me apart if you feel like it though)


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07 Dec 2011, 5:45 am

spongy wrote:
Erisad wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
I offered a girl once in college to strip for me and a buddy. She chickened out.


Gee, I wonder why. Sounds a little creepy if you ask me. :roll:

OMG Erisad how could you be so insensitive.

This guy is talking about a rejection that changed his life and you are calling him creepy, what is wrong with you?.

(Just so we are clear this post is an attempt of humour, feel free to tear me apart if you feel like it though)


Loool, yes, how dare I. :lol:

Just saying that a girl refused to strip for them like it's a bad thing or like she's obligated to makes it obvious where his priorities lie. Then again, most of his threads were misogynist anyway so this comes as no surprise. :/



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14 Dec 2011, 9:48 pm

spongy wrote:
Erisad wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
I offered a girl once in college to strip for me and a buddy. She chickened out.


Gee, I wonder why. Sounds a little creepy if you ask me. :roll:

OMG Erisad how could you be so insensitive.

This guy is talking about a rejection that changed his life and you are calling him creepy, what is wrong with you?.

(Just so we are clear this post is an attempt of humour, feel free to tear me apart if you feel like it though)


That was after the rejection that changed my life. :P