I'm Doomed

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I'm doomed to be single forever!!
Everytime I like a guy they have no interest in me and rather be friends.
I'm getting stressed out by all this and saddned and lonely.
I keep praying and praying, but it never seems to come :'(

At least guys will be friends with you.

IRL, with me they won't even be that.

Have you thought about getting to know some of the single guys here? I mean if its a no go its fine, but wouldn't hurt if you don't mind the long distance thing.

Chances are any of the available single guys here probably live hundreds of miles away from her. Don't be so worried about being single; I've been single all my life and I think relationships are over-rated. I use to despair at seeing couples together, but now I'm not so concerned about it. Life has so much to offer besides relationships.

That could be a possiblity to both of those, but who knows.
Right now I just wonder if there is some one for me out there.
I'm not like this all the time, but right now I'm sad

I know exactly how you feel there's a guy I like right now spending lots of time with me this summer, in fact he's even sleeping over for a weekend. I keep dropping hints that I like him, but he has this idea that I might not be right for him because of symptoms caused by my AS. When ever I talk to him he's always talking about how much he wants a girl friend and how he's going to try online dating and it makes me so sad. I'm like a little kid to him or something. Anyway he's not the first all the men I really like do that to me. My last BF and I broke up because he was only interested in intercourse. I've had a lot of guys use me for just sex too. It's like I have this phrase written on my head that says "you could do better" it tends to appear when I tell them about my difficulties related to my AS. It's so hard I just want to be alone now. All my friends who I have no interest in are guys and life seems to suck for me right now.

Or thousands!

Oh no....

We're gonna see a lot of white knights trying to rescue the damsel in distress here.




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Long distance relationships CAN work if someone is willing to relocate 1ce things get serious(I am). I feel like I'm going to be single for the rest of my life unless I turn gay because women only want to be friends with me & they never like me in that way. Maybe the problem is that people are to picky

I know the feeling.

other than being a dude I'm in true same position , I don't particuarly understand girls and with my best freind permanently leaving the country at the end of the week I haven't felt lonelier the only girls I share remote interests with smoke drugs and have casual sex so I can't find anyone I really find anyone who likes the same things as me and is completely clean including drinking because I absolutely hate watching some my freinds screw up their own bodies in front of me so much to the fact that i'm no longer freinds with some of them because of it small towns are horrible everyone knows eachother and if you're like me and don't have many freinds people you've never seen know you and then you're instantly ridiculed for being different and not talking to people.

So you're not alone here.

Although I'm a boy, I'm on the same boat as you on this. It's a sad and hard feeling, I know. The best thing to do is keep looking, I know this is obvious, but hopefully you will find someone.

Hilarious!! !!

In my own experiences, sometimes pursuing a relationship isn't the best way to do business. One thing that has helped me is getting out more often, looking confident and positive.

I'm a guy, but I'm pretty much in the same position as you. Girls say I'm really sweet and all, but only want me as a friend. I think its because I'm too nice to them. I'm sure its the same for girls as well (I admit that a lot of guys go for so called 'hot' chicks without regard to whether they actually have a nice personality or not. Not me).

It gets me down a lot of the time

I feel the same. Lots of guys are my friends but not one ever wants to go beyond that. And of the two relationships I've had, they turned out terribly. Abuse, cheating, lying, all that rot. It's probably the main reason I'm on anti-depressants.

This is just the right thread for me right now.

I had a girlfriend once, but we split up and the chances of getting back together are ridiculously low, and just got even lower. The thing is that I still think she's the one for me and can't imagine living together with anyone else. And besides that, I don't think I'll ever find somebody again, anyway.

The expectation of being alone (and probably also poor) for the rest of my life is destroying me.