Red flags on a woman.

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There has been some talk about wether or not a thread like this would be accepted, just to clear any doubt I have opened it and you are free to post as many stereotypes as you wish as long as they dont include any insults to all female/arent appliable to every female(if someone sees one of the red flags for males is critizicing all males you are more than welcome to report it and we´ll get in touch with the poster.)

So anyhow here we go:

-1 She seems extremely interested in how much money you make and doesnt seem interested in other aspects of your life/personality.

-2 She starts mentioning possible changes from the first date(This means that you become some sort of project and if you are unable to adapt to one of the changes things will probably fall apart)

Feel free to add your own suggestions.

Mine are the same as I listed in the red flags for a man.

Hmm might be difficult to work it out from the perspective and of someone who has never dated a woman, but I'll give it a shot.

- only shows interest in you when/after she has seen other girls showing interest in you

- seems to require too much information about your income and assets too early in the getting-to-know-you phase

- expects you to take her on expensive dates and buy her lots of expensive things (a.k.a. if you take her out on a date to a middle of the line place, she is displeased rather than happy and grateful for your efforts)

- has double standards for you and herself (a.k.a. if she does it, it's fine, if you do the same thing, you're in the s**t).

- has known you as a friend for a while and shown no romantic interest in you (although used you as a shoulder to lean on), but then suddenly shows interest after going through a hard break-up.

- does not like being seen in public with you by people she knows

- introduces you to others as her "friend"

- expects you to do everything for her, but never does anything thoughtful for you

as mentiond, being over concerned with your wallet.

doesnt want to be seen with you and all that crap

treats you like a trophy and not a person.

only wants you when she needs your help.

Goes after you to make another man jealous.

Hooks up with you after she has had a serious breakup.

Uses you as a babysitter.

From personal experience:

- Asks you refrain from PDA in specific places or in front of specific people.

- Tends to run into male acquaintences on the street with astonishing regularity.

-Exagerates your interests or personal time to others quite often.

-Expects you to drop your personal interest and give her 98% attention, even after you gave her some. Why is that girl friend still hanging around?

-Expects gifts, as if it were your job.

-Thinks kissing, snuggling and sex before marrege are for tramps and whores. Probably religious, and constantly guilt trip themselves through everything.

-Calls your kind of (label here) negative things, and then tries to sugar coat that with something like this "I don't mean you of course. Heh heh *pats your hand*"

-A Superwoman, you can't miss that red flag on her.

When she wants you to rape her and beat hell out of her first time you go to her house, and then calls you a mummy pansy boy when you don't.

I've had that one.

Is entirely open about her pysch med adventures and getting them without prescription from friends sending them from out of country to her.

I've only got a couple from experience...

1) if she's constantly making excuses to not see you

2) if she "admits" to cheating on you, and then later admits to lying about cheating to see your reaction. (yes this actually happened to me, she was trying to get me to break up with her, and when that didn't work, she cut the crap and just broke up with me directly)

3) If she doesn't want to touch you. I'm not specifically referring to sex, rather she doesn't want you being affectionate with her at all. However, this doesn't necessarily constitute a red flag by itself; many of the people here, both men and women., are touch-aversive in general. However, if she hugs her friends all the time but still doesn't want you near her, then there's a problem...

when she has seen your profile and would very much be happy to get to know you better....

I disagree with the touching thing... cause hugs / kisses need fore warning or I need to initiate them, I dunno why but I just cant sometimes even when someone I've known for a long time does it.

1. asks about money too often.
2. doesn't take care of herself.(not necessarily pedicures and manicures, just cut nails.), or if she looks like a slob, or if her hair is all over the place.
3. if all she talks about is drugs and drinking, or kids and her dream wedding on the first date. Mentioning that its something you want out of life is cool(not the drugs.), going over it in extreme detail is scary stalker stuff.

4. If she wont kiss you first and if her kissing sucks. No effort in kissing NO go.

I am 26, I have been with 5 women in my life, 1was psycho(never excuse behavior that sets off alarm bells.). 1was awesome but lived far away and after 1 visit even though we interacted for 2years no more there. 1 was 19, and 19year olds suck at relationships. 2 were not worth thinking about.

If she were attracted to me, because then I would know she was nonexistent.