I'm friends with some....but I'm not sure if they'd like me to spread the word around or not. So I can ask a few if you'd like. If any say yes, you can friend me on fb and such.
But as an AS girl (ok, I'm autistic, same dif) in a relationship with an AS boy, it is not all fun and games. THOUGH. It does really help that we can be frank with one another instead of getting offended at someones words or whatever.
It is especially troubling if one of the people has other mental issues aside from just AS/autism. For instance, I have anger management issues, I might be bipolar and I might have an anxiety disorder. That caused the relationship I was in to slide backwards because I put too much stress onto it because I didn't/don't know these things (that's what therapy is for....soon, soon). So if you do find one, make sure you aren't playing counselor to her. You may feel good and smart and helpful at first, but it will end up hurting both of you and causing problems. And same on the reverse.
Another way you could meet someone is on this site. I met my boyfriend/significant other on this site. Not that I came here to date...I just wanted to make some good friends. When he noticed that I had a large group of friends and I wasn't totally insane (well, I don't think so, he says I'm not crazy ) and that we got along (through PM's) we really hit it off. Just keep your eyes open, always read into situations (assuming is the worst) and be friendly. Even if you don't meet a girlfriend here, you may meet someone who could help lead or just lead you to finding one.
Good luck.
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Go die in a ditch if you're a b*tch, if you're a jerk, go to work, if you're just mean, flee the scene, and if you're rude, go ahead and intrude because you're probably just like me.