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11 Nov 2011, 9:36 pm

As an Aspie girl, I hear that I automatically get any guy I want just because I'm female.

I decided 3 seconds ago that I wanted someone rich, handsome, witty, kind and well endowed, who is an astrophysicist who plays the violin and helps crippled children in his spare time.

He has not materialised and I feel cheated of my birthright.

Please explain.


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11 Nov 2011, 9:48 pm

what kind of answer do you expect to a bitter rhetorical question?



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11 Nov 2011, 9:58 pm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joke


Perhaps you have not noticed the plethora of posts dismissing the struggles that females with AS face because "we can get laid more easily".


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11 Nov 2011, 10:10 pm

Hmmm...err what?



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11 Nov 2011, 10:29 pm

Here's my husband. He's handsome and personable. I received notification on my 18th birthday that my man that I was automatically entitled to had arrived.

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11 Nov 2011, 10:33 pm

shrox wrote:
Hmmm...err what?


Some people seem to have the idea that girls with asperger's have it easier for various reasons like being able to imitate easier to fit in, having other girls teach and protect them, and being more easily able to find someone to date. None of this applied to me.

I do agree that it is easier for an attractive girl (nt or as) to get laid but that doesn't mean they will find a nice boyfriend.



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11 Nov 2011, 10:47 pm

hanyo wrote:
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girls ... more easily able to find someone to date. None of this applied to me.


Simply because you are female, you will get messages on online dating sites.

Curious if you've tried this yet.



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11 Nov 2011, 10:55 pm

SoftlyStepping wrote:
hanyo wrote:
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girls ... more easily able to find someone to date. None of this applied to me.


Simply because you are female, you will get messages on online dating sites.

Curious if you've tried this yet.


Yep. Not only did I get hundreds of messages, I also got this:

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11 Nov 2011, 10:55 pm

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Simply because you are female, you will get messages on online dating sites.

Curious if you've tried this yet.


Yes but to date or because they want sex?

I haven't really tried it because I'm not looking. Back when I was actually interested in dating or sex I didn't have internet so I actually had to go out and meet people. I've never had a relationship that lasted more than 6 months and the only two guys that I had that were "boyfriends" weren't even that serious.



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11 Nov 2011, 11:20 pm

I was doing pretty well up until the astrophysicist part.



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11 Nov 2011, 11:30 pm

What about my needs?



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11 Nov 2011, 11:33 pm

shrox wrote:
What about my needs?


Pft. I'm here, I'm waiting patiently, I'm minimally social, I'm great-looking. What the hell?

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11 Nov 2011, 11:37 pm

mv wrote:
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What about my needs?


Pft. I'm here, I'm waiting patiently, I'm minimally social, I'm great-looking. What the hell?

:wink:


What about our needs? Women all banding together, geez...



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11 Nov 2011, 11:49 pm

shrox wrote:
What about our needs? Women all banding together, geez...


Send me a good Amishman. Many blessings upon you and your house.



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11 Nov 2011, 11:49 pm

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What about our needs? Women all banding together, geez...


Send me a good Amishman. Many blessings upon you and your house.


I am Quaker.



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11 Nov 2011, 11:52 pm

Light and life to all.