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NaomiDB
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23 Dec 2011, 8:36 am

where are they!!

whats your relationship status guys?
are you in a relationship?
are you happy?



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23 Dec 2011, 8:45 am

You won't find someone like this, I guarantee you.



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23 Dec 2011, 8:51 am

NaomiDB wrote:
where are they!!

whats your relationship status guys?
are you in a relationship?
are you happy?


all boxes ticked :D


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23 Dec 2011, 9:02 am

I have no one, and I probably never will.



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23 Dec 2011, 9:10 am

don't really believe in 'soulmates' because it implies there's no problems or all the things relationships really encounter.

but i'm in love and happy with it. completely.



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23 Dec 2011, 9:11 am

Asp-Z wrote:
You won't find someone like this, I guarantee you.

sheldon <3
also, I'm not really looking on here, was just venting.



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23 Dec 2011, 9:52 am

There's no such thing. The only thing even close is finding someone _good enough_ while you are young and sticking with each other until the end.


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23 Dec 2011, 10:07 am

Do what you love, don't look for a soulmate.



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23 Dec 2011, 10:19 am

bucephalus wrote:
NaomiDB wrote:
where are they!!

whats your relationship status guys?
are you in a relationship?
are you happy?


all boxes ticked :D
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23 Dec 2011, 10:39 am

NaomiDB wrote:
whats your relationship status guys?
are you in a relationship?
are you happy?

Single
No
Yes, it is December.
However I am rather a lot to take on board and understand anyway. Ha.


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23 Dec 2011, 11:13 am

The whole soul mate crap is just BS.

Relationship status: Happy bachelor

NO relationship, but many affairs

YES, i'm happy. Absolutely.



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23 Dec 2011, 11:23 am

NaomiDB wrote:
where are they!!

whats your relationship status guys?
are you in a relationship?
are you happy?

I believed in the idea of a soul-mate 2wice & it didn't work out both times. I'm not sure I belive rite now but I may feel differently if I get in another relationship. I'm NOT unhappy but I would be happier if I was in a relationship. Instead of looking for a soul-mate; I'm looking for someone who will give me a real chance who will put forth effort to try & make our relationship work instead of having things being one-sided & maybe we could become each others soul-mates


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23 Dec 2011, 11:35 am

i do not have a soul. i have a consciousness, but that is as far as it goes.
"soul" is a flavor of personality i was told, but my personality is sterile and has no flavor.

i am content to live every day inside my consciousness, and the fact that i do not attract like minded people is "par for the course" in my life. i love tammy but she has no idea what goes on inside my mind, and no one ever will.

all the gooey emotions i see that stick to other people just roll off my back like water sprayed on a duck.

i waddle around in my own pond.



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23 Dec 2011, 11:38 am

b9 wrote:
i do not have a soul. i have a consciousness, but that is as far as it goes.
"soul" is a flavor of personality i was told, but my personality is sterile and has no flavor.

i am content to live every day inside my consciousness, and the fact that i do not attract like minded people is "par for the course" in my life. i love tammy but she has no idea what goes on inside my mind, and no one ever will.

all the gooey emotions i see that stick to other people just roll off my back like water sprayed on a duck.

i waddle around in my own pond.

i respect your perspective a great deal.


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23 Dec 2011, 11:47 am

b9 wrote:
i do not have a soul. i have a consciousness, but that is as far as it goes.


I would say that since the concept of "soul mate" is obviously not a religious one, it rather refers to "soul" in the sense philosophers in ancient Greek used it (that is: psyche).

But still, I think "brain friend" would be a more appropriate word. Less cheesy at least.



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23 Dec 2011, 12:04 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
b9 wrote:
i do not have a soul. i have a consciousness, but that is as far as it goes.
"soul" is a flavor of personality i was told, but my personality is sterile and has no flavor.

i am content to live every day inside my consciousness, and the fact that i do not attract like minded people is "par for the course" in my life. i love tammy but she has no idea what goes on inside my mind, and no one ever will.

all the gooey emotions i see that stick to other people just roll off my back like water sprayed on a duck.

i waddle around in my own pond.

i respect your perspective a great deal.

i appreciate that.

my perspective is purely first person perspective, and unfortunately i can not see things any other way.
all i can see externally is what surrounds me at close range, and even then i can not see the motives behind anything said to me that i did not think myself.

i do know and feel that you have love for people like me who can not return your love in equal kind.
i kind of feel i am short changing you by being the way i am.

i am going to bed now because that is where my isolated mind wishes to be, but your words will make me sleep more comfortably. one day, if i get better, i may repay your concern for me manifold, but for now, just know your words will soften my sleep tonight.