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CrinklyCrustacean
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28 Dec 2011, 4:01 am

How would you like a girl to ask you out?



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28 Dec 2011, 5:04 am

Choose the place you wanna go,and than you could say things like: "I think you are the right person to be there with me"If "normal" sighns of attention don't work,use the weppons of mass destruction-dress sexy



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28 Dec 2011, 5:26 am

I'd appreciate if she would design a questionnaire and list the possibilities on it, either in alphabetic order or sorted by subjects. Then i could check what, if at all, i'd like to do with her. A large selection would be advisable.



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28 Dec 2011, 5:41 am

Walk up to me, and chat for a bit then say it. But honestly i couldnt care less how a girl would do it if none are going to.



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28 Dec 2011, 7:03 am

I had a good line used on me quite recently. She grabbed my arm and sweetly said "You know if you ever want to take me out somewhere, I'll say yes"

Clever girl :P


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28 Dec 2011, 7:18 am

If a gal was interested in me - let's say, for example, in a restaurant setting, and she had eyes for me, a good start would be first name and phone number or email address on, let's say, a restaurant paper napkin (or a business card, if they have one; but the napkin adds spontaneity).

I'd fold up the napkin, walk away, then call back later to introduce myself to her, and to find out what she had on her mind!

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28 Dec 2011, 9:38 am

The best way a girl can get my attention is to be into the same things I'm into... a gamer girl with a few extra pounds is infinitely more attractive than a rail-thin model that I have no interests in common with...



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28 Dec 2011, 9:42 am

If I would see that girl often (for example at school or work) I would try to ask her to spend some time with me (like going to café or museum or whatever) and try to see whether she likes my company. I suppose my behavior would reveal that I am interested in her even if I do not give any clear indications. If that fails, then I should consider whether I give up or try some more direct approach.

If I would not see that girl anywhere, I might just ask her (assuming I get enough courage) to go to somewhere without any direct sexual reference.



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28 Dec 2011, 1:40 pm

I'm not fussy as long as there's no "game playing" involved.



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28 Dec 2011, 2:00 pm

Just get my attention and I'll do the rest.

MUCH easier said than done though: I am extraordinarily dense, even for an Aspie.



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28 Dec 2011, 2:04 pm

RikersBeard wrote:
I had a good line used on me quite recently. She grabbed my arm and sweetly said "You know if you ever want to take me out somewhere, I'll say yes"

Clever girl :P


This I guess



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28 Dec 2011, 6:36 pm

PTSmorrow wrote:
I'd appreciate if she would design a questionnaire and list the possibilities on it, either in alphabetic order or sorted by subjects. Then i could check what, if at all, i'd like to do with her. A large selection would be advisable.


(off-topic. Sorry, have to share :D ) Man... I just flashed back to "Better Off Dead" and thinking this is *exactly* the sort of date that Lane would have ended up in with the girl with the orthodontic appliance had agreed to go out with him.

PTSmorrow, doesn't say bad things about you, just funny if you've... ahh heck, if you've seen the movie you get it already.



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28 Dec 2011, 6:45 pm

Grisha wrote:
Just get my attention and I'll do the rest.

MUCH easier said than done though: I am extraordinarily dense, even for an Aspie.


Exactly my position. It was literally way after college that I thought back to an encounter in high school and said to myself for the first time, "My goodness [1], Amy wanted to lay me!" So, more than 10 years between event and realization.

Grisha, If I recall correctly, you're from approximately my part of the world (North America), and you're a little bit older. Please tell me this s**t wears off with age... (Please don't tell me it should have worn off during puberty...)

[1] Not really... Substitute something more vulgar of your choice.

AlienRed wrote:
RikersBeard wrote:
I had a good line used on me quite recently. She grabbed my arm and sweetly said "You know if you ever want to take me out somewhere, I'll say yes"

Clever girl :P


This I guess


^ Yup, this'll work.

Or sneak up behind me, trip me and snog [2] me on the floor or something...

[2] If you don't know the meaning, look it up. It's not dirty.

(typo correction)



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28 Dec 2011, 7:13 pm

"Sir, could you please get the hell out of here?"



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28 Dec 2011, 7:18 pm

I usually walk up to a guy or girl and say "I think you are very attractive and i want you to ask me out" Then i walk away. :lol:

I am not the type of person to beat around the bush or play games.


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28 Dec 2011, 7:19 pm

RikersBeard wrote:
I had a good line used on me quite recently. She grabbed my arm and sweetly said "You know if you ever want to take me out somewhere, I'll say yes"

Clever girl :P


Oh yes... ;)