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wonderwomen2012
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14 Jan 2012, 12:33 pm

An espie(sp) likes you? And when he does not?



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14 Jan 2012, 12:38 pm

The best way to tell if an Aspie likes your not is to be direct & ask.


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14 Jan 2012, 12:45 pm

I am kinda shy though :cry:



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14 Jan 2012, 12:53 pm

wonderwomen2012 wrote:
I am kinda shy though :cry:

Us Aspies tend to be shy too & we're also naturally awkward so it can sometimes be very hard to tell if we like someone. Also we may not show that we like the other because we may of not considered that she/he may like us so we kind of ignore the feelings. We tend to majorly s#ck at taking hints so being more direct is usually best


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14 Jan 2012, 12:57 pm

Ok Nick thank you very much



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14 Jan 2012, 1:04 pm

wonderwomen2012 wrote:
Ok Nick thank you very much

Your Welceome :)
Others here might have an idea of what signs to watch for & how to make a subtle move. Maybe I'll think of something more helpful latter


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14 Jan 2012, 1:07 pm

I would really appreciate that Nick :D



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14 Jan 2012, 2:01 pm

As nick007 said, asking is good because a lot of Aspies are too shy to come out with it themselves.

As for other ways to tell, well it differs from person to person, but the standard signs like more shyness than normal, saying silly things, acting generally nervous, and so on likely apply.