Misogyny

Post Reply New Topic

Anyone else here just hate females?

I kind of hate everyone, but I have an especial rage against even remotely attractive females. I believe it's because I'm angry that I want them and will never get them (I'm celibate).

Logically I don't have any reason to despise females over males, but the frustration is just unbearable to the point I...

Well, yeh. How common is this? Any remedies (besides coming in contact with females)?

Yeah, it's pretty common here.
I would say the remedy is to just stop thinking of women as something for you to "get"/acquire, and separating them mentally into attractive/not attractive,
but feelings aren't always rational.

See a psychiatrist, maybe?

Don't hate women! If you love people then beautiful women will love you. That's honestly how it works in my experience.

You say you're celibate... by choice, or what? You can choose to be not celibate and pursue people you find attractive. Not to say it will come together magically with no effort or pitfalls but suppressing a desire in a way that leads to great frustration isn't good.

I'm a celibate virgin. I've never asked anyone out, nor been rejected. Neither have I been asked out.

Early on in my life I decided to avoid romantic relationships. Even though I crave the sex, an actual relationship sounds like hell to me. Also being a virgin helps solidify my 'outsider' status.

My hatred is just a visceral reaction. I see a female, and I crave them. Yet I know that lust will never be fulfilled, which is very frustrating. I would turn off my libido if I could, and subsequently my misogyny could very well lessen.

The closest analogy I can think of is this: imagine you have been subsisting on bread and water for over 15 years. Yet all around you waiters carry delicious meals. The only way to win the yummy food is to convince the waiter you are worthy. Maybe a juggling act would amuse the waiter enough to share their delicacies. But, to me, the entire process seems so debasing and unnatural I refuse to participate.

It's difficult not to resent the constant tease of impossible meals.

I just hate wanting things I cannot have. So I hate my desires and the females that incite them.

Try prostitutes.

Prostitution and rape are illegal.

I didn't say try rape.

Or you could look for women similarly disinterested in frustrating games and relationships.

I understand about the revulsion at the cheapness of everything having a price... I don't know what to say, you can own the whole earth but no one is going to give it to you, you have to take it. I didn't say that to be harsh. I know it's harsh, that fact in different forms has made me so sad so many times. But then again. The whole world is yours for the taking. So in one way everything has a price but who are you paying the price to. The space between things kind of, that's shared by everyone. Everyone pays the life they were given for nothing into the communal pool and ends up with either nothing or everything depending on what you define as the boundaries of your self and life. I feel like I'm talking in a way that won't be taken seriously so I will stop.

I'm not going to have sex. Not now or ever in the future, if my mind stays as it is now. I am fully committed to being a life-long virgin whatever the circumstances.

But lust is always there. I don't want to feel lust. When I see females it flares up, and I become angry. Thus I hate females.

I can't be the only one who feels this way, right?

I kind of do the same thing... I'm not a virgin, though, and don't avoid a promising relationship when it comes around.

Well,you hate these "attractive" girls..I know where that comes from.In our society these days most of the women are hitchhikers..Even if you get one of them-more than likely it wouldn't be for long time,because as soon as your "car" turns the different direction of what she needs she will leave you. BUT..Don't forget..Most of us,people here in the forum are outcast,different than the others,every rule has it's exceptions..Maybe one just like that among those you hate?

All right. Just want to say this reminds me of some rigid ideas I have held onto that prevented me from being happy. And I held onto them because I did not understand how I could be happy otherwise but I am now seeing more options.