Hello,
I'm a straight male in Columbus, Ohio, and have Asperger's. I understand your frustration. Columbus is all about Buckeyes, other sports, drinking, etc., none of which interest me. My interests are environmentalism, philosophy, ghost hunting, and other non-Midwestern interests. It really sucks, being in a city this big, and not being able to find anyone with similar interests my age who is interested.
I'd also love to hear from an intelligent, interested gal.