Is feeding me a sign that she likes me?

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I went on an outing with a friend last week. She is quite cute, intelligent and someone who i see myself with as a mate. We went out for lunch, shopping and skating for a few hours. I payed for lunch and skating. We went to a cafe after skating, ordered some coffee and some desert. Since i have been having meals with this girl, we have always shared a bit of our meals together but something happened at the cafe that was a notch up. She broke off a piece of her ice cream and fed me, hand to mouth and i reciprocated by feeding her a piece of my crepe. I freaked at what had happened but it was an amazing experience. What does people feeding each other mean when its just the two of them?

The whole time i spent with her, It felt more like a date (for me) rather than just friends hanging out having a good time. Considering my rough patch that is my love life, this outing was without a doubt the best experience i had with a girl. If it was a date or not.

Yes.

My real response to this thread is suitable only for the Adult forum but I'll be nice (and avoid the impending ban) by saying instead that I think you've probably got yourself a girlfriend there.

It's hard to be 100% certain, but it does sound, at any rate, like she feels quite comfortable with you. You can probably get away with straight up asking her in a gentle, playful tone at a moment when she seems to be making signals, "What are you thinking about?". If she says "You", she's into you. If she says "what a good friend you are" or something along those lines, she probably thinks you're not into her (or girls in general, for that matter).

The better the connection, the less you'll have to rehearse it. Don't worry about details.

Ask her out. On a real actual date. Make sure she knows it's a date.

That's your next move. Now go and do it. Send her a message if it's too much asking in person.

Japanese? A good friend of mine is a tall Japanese lady with big brestage, a flat belly and long legs. Very not typical. And very sexy. If I were single I'd soooooo ask her out.

Play along, don't make a move.

I don't want rain on your parade OP but is there a Japanese custom about feeding someone. Perhaps it's some kind of cultural ritual best friends do or something

She is away on holiday with family/friends and will be back soon to resume her studies. I would like to do something with her around valentine's day.

HAHA! Typical aspie boy response. Excuses and delays. You are just afraid!

She is expecting you to do something! Think about that until you get it. OK? You aren't doing something objectionable or something bad. OK? She wants you to make a move and ask her out. And if she says no, well then you'll know for sure she isn't interested and you will be able to move on.

Just send her a message already and tell her how you feel. Do it now. You should have done it the day after the feeding, actually. JUST DO IT before some other guy grabs her away.

I do think the feeding was a clear indication of her likeness for you but that BF comment makes me wonder if she is being sincere or just playing you?