how do you know what love feels like?

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Hello,

Can I ask a question?

I am wonder if this is wright place because it says its about relationship, about love.

I want to know how you knoe if you love someone. Like my mother and father if they are away I am upset and I need them to do things like help me and play game when upset.

They are the only people can touch me I like hugs by them sometoms. But am I just very much used to them and I get upset when they are away because things are differnet and I don’t like change, or am upset because I love them? How can you tell if you love someone or if you just need them to be in the right place and do the right things? What things do you feel if it is real love? What is difference between feelig love for mother or cat or boyfriend (I don't have a boyfriend).

What is your experiences in this?

Thank you

Of course you can ask a question, the one you've asked is however a very difficult one. There are different ways to love people, you have the love for family members which is a form of platonic love, it means you care deeply for people you know and would be very sad if you lost them. I personally feel this is the most difficult kind of love to know you're feeling, but you generally feel it for your pets, (close) family, and perhaps some friends.

Then there is romantic love, when you feel it, you'll know .

I guess there's a third love, the one which many religions talk about.

In the end, what each of these means for you is something you'll have to find out for yourself.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dASp-TkBq3Q[/youtube]

Sorry, that didn't help very much but that is ok.

The video was a bit strange, do you really ignore it if someone gets a bag stolen and spill all the cornflakes? I don't think thats right.

I know what love feels like because I fell in love with a coupe girls. I care aLOT about them & want what's best for them even if it means not me not being in their lives anymore. I liked the way I felt with them in my life & I felt like I was a better person because of it.

Been there (True Love) just once. Its something almost overwhelmingly strong. A desire for the other's company. To me, I even kind of loosened my defenses to let this girl feel more welcome.
A dash of lust, but a ton of longing. Loneliness when apart, but couldn't stop thinking of her..
Unfortunately, this may be an individual thing without a definite answer.

Sincerely,
Matt

I've been there only twice, and each time was different. The realization of what it was came differently, as well.

I really can't answer your question. I don't think anyone can.