I think I pissed off my girlfriend.

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Yesterday she asked me to send her a sexy picture, but I'm embarrased about my body (too much acne) so instead I sent her a picture of me making fun of The Situation (don't know his actual name, I dont watch the show) from Jersey Shore while sticking out my tongue trying to look as stupid as possible. I meant to be funny, but she stopped talking to me and she hasn't answered me when I messaged her today. I have no idea HOW this would piss her off, I mean maybe she doesn't have enough time to get online. I didn't think I would have trouble like this since she isn't an NT (not Autistic exactly either. she's SIMILAR to an Aspie but not one) but I guess I can. Am I just being paranoid?

What were you doing in the picture?

If I was that girl I'd probably think you were taking the piss out of me.

I think that's fine, which probably means it's a terrible idea

I wouldve thought it amusing. But that's me.

wow.... you are only 14 years old! How old is your girlfriend and please tell me she is not an internet girlfriend. If she is and you haven't met her in person, you may have just "dodged a bullet". There are so many perverts out there honey. You have to be very careful. If she is not responding to you chances are, she isn't who she says she is. Being "pissed off" is a manipulative practice. It is a way that they get what they want because they think you are too weak/lonely/insecure to risk losing them. Don't fall for it. Stand up for yourself and just tell her you are too shy. Better that than to find a naked picture of yourself in the hands of pedophiles who will pay a ton of money for it and then have it end up on a police station wall as evidence.

If you have met her in real life and she is asking you for a naked picture, I'm not sure you really want a girl like this right now or even later in life. This is not normal behavior for a young girl.

I agree with Cinbad. It's one thing to just ask for a picture at all, and maybe you could give her the benefit of the doubt that she may just be too busy at the moment to talk. However, I'd say it's a small thing to get angry over, and that even if she is who she says she is, someone who would get upset over that probably isn't worth being with.

I agree, something doesn't sound right about this situation and there are plenty of perverts and exhibitionists online. I don't think you should be taking explicit photos of yourself anyway as they may have future repercussions if you ever go to apply for a professional job. Even so, it isn't good behavior for a young girl, if she is acting like that towards you, it makes me think how many other guys she is behaving like that towards.

Yeah, she sounds like a brat either way. If that's the case, tell her to stuff it (and save her future girlfriends the grief).

Give it a few days, and if she's still not talking to you, just tell her the truth. Tell her you're not comfortable with yourself quite yet, but you hope that she still loves you just the same regardless.

There's no reason for her to get upset over something like that!

i like your response to the picture request, OP. i think the acne saved you from a potentially bad situation.

if you met this person online you don't really have any reason to trust them. if that is the situation i would advise you to make sure that your parents are aware of your relationship(you can skip the part about the pictures if it's too embarrassing) as they can help you to navigate these waters safely.

Hmm it says you're 14. You did the right thing.

Depending on how much is showing in the picture that can still be illegal and considered to be child porn even if the picture is sent between two teens. I think I remember a teen getting arrested for it.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/04/14/portage-teen-arrested-sexting_n_849058.html

http://springhill.wtsp.com/news/news/two-teens-arrested-sexting/62738

TBH I wouldn't worry about her behaviour. It's normal for kids of 13 to get pippy and get over it.