So, second date went well :)

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ebec11
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04 Feb 2012, 8:28 pm

I met a really fantastic guy on OKCupid, and so far I've had two great dates with him. I want to keep it going :) But I'm scared that it won't change to romantic, we've hugged, but not kissed yet. I feel all giddy around him, but yet I don't want to rush into things too fast either. What advice do you have?



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04 Feb 2012, 8:45 pm

I think third date or fourth date is fine to kiss.

Maybe look up on the Internet pre-kiss signals to indicate to him. Just keep it subtle, don't overdo it.

And congrats. :)



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04 Feb 2012, 9:42 pm

Thank you :) I think fourth date probably, as third date is hanging out at the house playing video games with mom upstairs XP Not really the mood setting for kissing, but super fun for both of us :D



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04 Feb 2012, 9:48 pm

A hug is still personal. He may be nervous too, even the most confident of men do. Congratulations on meeting someone!


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04 Feb 2012, 9:56 pm

Thank you :) We shook hands on first date, hug on second, probably another hug (longer?) on third, maybe kiss on forth?