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Taybot97
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24 Feb 2012, 5:30 pm

I asked out a NT girl about 2 months ago and she said yes (both freshman in highschool). So for about 2 months now I've had my first girlfriend. I'm happy around her and as far as I can tell she is happy around me. Problem is 1) I have trouble talking to her in public places around others I know. I have trouble texting her because I don't know what to say. Only in person in reletive privacy can I actually get a good conversation and keep it up. So how can I talk to her more. And 2) we haven't done more than hug twice. I feel along with better communication I need to kiss her and hold her hand to further the relationship but don't know how to kiss a girl. Is it even necessary? What's my next step?



Also I'm not sure if she knows I have AS but haven't told her. Should I? If I should what is a good way to bing it up?

Sorry for grammar mistakes, Im on my phone. I looked and fixed some but probably don't get all



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24 Feb 2012, 5:52 pm

I think your next step should be to talk to her privately about all this. Tell her about AS & how you don't know what to say to her & the affection thing


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24 Feb 2012, 7:22 pm

nick007 wrote:
I think your next step should be to talk to her privately about all this. Tell her about AS & how you don't know what to say to her & the affection thing


I like this advice more than what my NT friends gave me. They said just man up and do something. I can plan a day to go and see her, is there any better way to bring up the subject or do I just say it straight up?