I got rejected and slapped hard in the middle of the hall.

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The_Face_of_Boo
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19 Jan 2012, 5:18 pm

Ouch! =(



Well, there's that girl I knew from the gym and we were being buddies since I joined, she works in a huge supplier that my company deal with, so there was also outside-gym acquaintance.

She's very hard-worker, working a side freenlance-work (animation bday shows for kids) in addition of her job, humorous and not religious at all - I can say she caught my interest somehow at the very least, so it made me think to give it a try someday.

I wasn't in best shape in the gym today as it after a long hard work day and still having slight-flu (sneezing, watery nose, harder to breath...). 'You look very pale today', she said, so I've realized it would be better to ask her in some better day. Went to the cafeteria there to drink some juice so I can catch my breath before going on, yet it didn't make me feel much better so I've decided to just go home instead, while leaving I've realized that my membership card is missing so I went back to the gym room and she was still there, "you're leaving now?" she said, and was caught in a lengthened chat chit chat with her (and I was really wanting to just leave!), she ends up telling me where exactly she lives and it made me recall a nice resto just there so out of slip of the tongue I asked her if she ever wants to go there just the two of us .

What was more awkward than attempting to ask her out was her very unexpected reaction:



































"YES! YES! let's go, why not" with a huge smile and over-enthusiastic yes-nodding ( Image), like someone in a movie who just got proposed to (I was thinking wtf O_O)

So I've replied let's go this Saturday, she accepted then she paused a moment and embarrassingly asked if it's possible to make the the Saturday after it since she has her own reason (and I was ok with it) yet I was like "c'mon tell me", she explained she's already exceeded her month's budget and waiting for her next salary (.......which indicates she's not of the "guys must always pay " league of girls, +100 pts for her!).
So I told her to not worry about this issue and leave it for this Saturday. ;)



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19 Jan 2012, 5:20 pm

The title does not describe the content very well.........I thought it was going to be a negative story, sounds good to me though.


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19 Jan 2012, 5:22 pm

congrats, but why the "rejection" header?



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19 Jan 2012, 5:23 pm

:thumleft: Awesome!! ! Glad it worked out for you, keep us informed for how the date goes :)


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19 Jan 2012, 5:23 pm

*sigh*, newbies.



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19 Jan 2012, 5:23 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
*sigh*, newbies.


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19 Jan 2012, 5:25 pm

:D check out mr smoothyboothy
just this mean you're leaving our club:(



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19 Jan 2012, 5:28 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:
:D check out mr smoothyboothy
just this mean you're leaving our club:(


not yet, too early to tell, and I am not quite done with the 'club' :-/ ;).



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19 Jan 2012, 5:35 pm

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEkKWKLwIrU[/youtube]

Finally, a success story! Almost every post here is depressing. Congratulations and try not to mess it up (as seem to be the norm with aspie guys).

Now, it is your duty to help me. Seriously, get your ass over here and help me find a woman crazy enough to be attracted by me.



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19 Jan 2012, 5:35 pm

Muchly felicitations.



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19 Jan 2012, 5:44 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEkKWKLwIrU[/youtube]

Finally, a success story! Almost every post here is depressing. Congratulations and try not to mess it up (as seem to be the norm with aspie guys).

Now, it is your duty to help me. Seriously, get your ass over here and help me find a woman crazy enough to be attracted by me.


Lesson 1: Avoid video game references.



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19 Jan 2012, 5:46 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Lesson 1: Avoid video game references.


Actually, being single is not all that bad...



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19 Jan 2012, 11:32 pm

Boo is prophetic. The title is simply the end of this story. ;)


(kidding! good luck!)



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20 Jan 2012, 12:11 am

AWESOME, Boo!! ! :bounce: :cheers: :thumleft:


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20 Jan 2012, 3:53 am

Great.

Hope you have a great time on saturday.


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20 Jan 2012, 5:58 pm

Maybe she replied so enthusiastically because you weren't aware of her other attempts to grab your attention? Anyway, it's nice to see a success story on here.

Tip for you: Don't pretend to like touch if you don't like it, she'll know it and it'll make it awkward.